You don’t have to always save the day to be a superman. Be honest, hard working, positive, have integrity, be respectful, not be selfish or self-centered and be progressive. Take pride in how you present yourself. I don't expect perfection at all. It would be nice to meet a man who is willing to put his best foot forward, not be afraid of a conversation beyond "how are you" or "how was your day," and can put effort into a friendship and not expect to be catered to just because he is physically present. And if you can turn a smile into a smile that is enhanced & illuminated by you, you just may be that super hero.
Me: I don't argue, I don't criticize, I don't emasculate. Fully capable but choose not to. I am career oriented, stable, nurturing to my boys (23 & 13), loving to my friends and family. Shy at times, outgoing at others. I may wear a dress & heels on casual Friday. My hair is natural so I may wear braids, or an afro...but I usually wear it curly. I generally wear glasses but I may put on my honey hazel contacts. I know who I am and set goals to get where I want to be. I believe in progression & am uncomfortable when anything (relationship or work) feels too comfortable or stagnant. I have worked hard to get where I am personally & professionally, and continue to improve on both. Though many have tried, my spirit can't be broken because I have God to guide my path as well as carry me if I do become tired or weak.
This sounds so serious, but I do have a sense of humor too. I don't take life or people too seriously. I have learned to not let people pull me into their storms. Maybe you would like to join me in my journey towards peace.
Stealing a quote because I couldn't have said it better: "Unless it’s mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it’s a waste of your time. There are too many mediocre things in life. Love shouldn’t be one of them."