You don’t have to always save the day to be a superman. You can decide whether or not to try on the cape; briefs and tights are optional. ;)
Stealing a quote because I couldn't have said it better: "Unless it’s mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it’s a waste of your time. There are too many mediocre things in life. Love shouldn’t be one of them."
PS: I don't respond to simply hi or hello. There has to be depth to conversation. And if you are not capable of being a gentleman, no need for corresponding.