This question is impossible to answer due to the fact that I need to know who I am going on that first date with! If a first date, say, for instance, had aquaphobia, then a moonlit dinner cruise wouldn't be very much fun, now, would it ladies!? If I cooked a dinner for 2 consisting of lobster in a savory tomato and basil sauce and my first date was allergic to shellfish, then I've ruined the date before she even arrives! I will say one thing, though, if it is spontanaety, laughter, fun and great conversation you seek, I guarantee to hold up my part of the bargain on a first, second, third or when we grow old and feeble date! Let's have some fun, Sweetheart!