I keep getting asked "What are you looking for?" . . Hmmmm to be honest I think if you are 'looking' for a particular person then you are never going to find them...I have been on my own now for some years (my choice) so let's try dating first and see where it goes...
Anyway, all I shall say is this.....
First...you MUST love cats...I have two who are still kittens (just)....they are both completely crazy, entertaining, loveable rogues...they fit in this household extremely well!!!
I would love to be with someone that I feel really comfortable with, someone who doesn't mind me spending the evening in my jim-jams, snuggled up on the sofa watching crap tv, while reading a book.
Someone who loves me just as much when I am not wearing make-up and got my hair scrapped back as much as when I am all dolled up for a night out!
Someone who shares my real passion for all kinds of music, from brutally heavy metal to beautiful classical, from big band to disco...who feels that music fuels their passion, from deep in their soul....
Someone who loves having a cuddle every day and always clears any arguments before going to bed...I'm passionate & romantic but definitely NOT Mills & Boon slushy...
Someone who truly is my very best friend...one I can trust implicitly, who never judges me, who never criticises me and who's sense of humour is as chidlishly silly as mine!!
Someone who loves trolley racing in the supermarket and sees life as through the eyes of a child...and someone who understands or better still, joins in the fun when I am feeling in a particularly childishly naughty mood!
Someone who is intelligent and loves deep debate and profound thinking yet also has a childishly silly sense of humour!
Someone who doesn't care if I have a tummy that shows I have had children and loves every scar, stretch mark and imperfection upon my body...and actually loves me being cuddly...
Someone who will let me in and learn everything about them, how they tick deep down inside...
Someone who will let me 'do my own thing' and support me in what I do...and I will do the same for you...
Someone who can be intense and understand my intensity...
Someone...maybe one day, that will let me fall in love with them...
Someone who appreciates straight talking...Have been known to be a bit blunt (I am quite a typical Aries) but just being honest, that's all :-)
and you will get EVERYTHING I have said above in return...plus much much more...
oh...PS...someone fairly close would be good, I do have a car but due to an op that went wrong while I was in the Royal Navy many years ago, and now having arthritis I have to walk using turbo-charged crutches and find I can't drive too far. Have good and bad days but I am not one to sit around and feel sorry for myself and I am NOT looking for a carer...
PPS....My son and I are off to Download this year...if you are a metal music fan and fancy a meet on one of the days, let me know!! (oooh but not the Friday, as all my fave bands are on that day on the main stage, so will be up front from the minute I get there until Slipknot finishes headlining!!!
First date eh? Hmmmm...the less expectations we have, the less stressful the situation...so just a drink or coffee first on neutral ground (pub/coffee shop)...then IF there is 'chemistry' between us, then arrange a proper date!
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