I have kind of a quirky personality. I love reading and read many books a year. I am also a gadget girl. I love all kinds of gadgets like computers, game systems, mp3 players etc. I like learning about new things and places. I like getting outdoors whenever possible. I have recently become a fan of horseback riding. And a friend is encouraging me to take up golf. My humor is a little different. Normally only people that read books and watch movies get my humor. I recognize that life takes a delicate balancing act. We normally do too much of something or not enough. I work for the sweet spot and I want a man that will too.
I am looking for a a man that will compliment my personality. I can be flightly at times so I really want a man that is very grounded and reliable. I prefer men that read, and keep up with current events. And also a man that is comfortable with my quirkiness and is not scared that I may be smarter than him. I won't rub it in, but don't expect me to hide it. I may be very different from women you are use to, but that is part of what makes me who I am. I can be kind of shy until I get to know you. A man that keeps his word is very important to me.
I just have to say that messaging back and forth with some of you guys is like pulling teeth. I get that the first message may be brief (hey, what’s up, how you doing, you like nice, etc.) because you’re trying to initiate a conversation; I GET IT, and when a woman returns a message letting you know she wants to get to know you better, and shares information about herself, it’s time for the messages to change. You should now be trying to get to know more about her.
When a woman replies to your message with something like…. hey I like your profile, you sound interesting, where are you from, or what do you do for fun; it is an effort to get to the next level. When you reply back with the same simplistic messages that you started with, it says something about you to that woman. Also when you don’t even bother to reply to a message with more than a phone number, that also says something about you. A women thinks “if he can’t even send a proper message, what will we possibly have to talk about on the phone”. And if you two never talk than it will NEVER go anywhere. I know we live in the information age where people have relations by text, but seriously. Microwave relationships are not cool.
Be honest about what you’re looking for! If I am looking for a serious relationship, and you are looking for a booty call, then why in the world waste each other’s time. It’s nothing wrong with what you want, and there are women that are looking for the same thing, but I am not one of them.