| About | Non-Smoker with Athletic body type | City | Toronto Ontario | |
| Details | 40 year old Man, 6' 2" (188 cm), Muslim | Ethnicity | Other Ethnicity Libra with Black hair |
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| I am Seeking a | Woman | For | Dating | |
| Needs Test | Not Completed | Chemistry | Not Completed | |
| Do you drink? | No | Do you want children? | Yes | |
| Marital Status | Single | Do you do drugs? | No | |
| Pets | No Pets | Eye Color | Brown | |
| Profession | Professional hero, future historian, leader | Do you have children? | No | |
| Education | Bachelors degree | Do you have a car? | N/A |
Relationship
Intent IamLLOYDDOBLER is looking for a relationship. |
Relationship History The longest relationship IamLLOYDDOBLER has been in was over 2 years long. |
Interests
About Me
Me
The "Intent" part of the profile is limiting and fails to allow for a precise expression of your outlook. I'm not on a mission or prejudging anything yet open to the potential for greatness.
My name is not Lloyd Dobler. I'm much cooler than him. (The name is an allusion. That's different than an "illusion".) I'm not a kickboxer or a scientist. I don't sell, buy or process anything as a career...
This site is a departure for me. I've never sought to "date" anyone. At a friend's insistent urging, I suppose I signed on to break from routine (or boredom). I chose the "dating" category to reach more people. I am a man, not a "guy." If you don't understand that, we may not see eye to eye but most get along with me just fine.
I've found even those who claim to be unremarkable are often somehow fascinating. Being open to that can help foster relationships and let them progress naturally rather than predetermining an outcome.
If you share even a few of these traits or aspire with me, we'll get along famously:
Honest, direct, forthright, principled, responsible
Easygoing/laid-back, not lazy
Demanding of yourself and others, not controlling
Assertive, not aggressive
Loyal, not blind
Patient, not indecisive
Focused, not closed off
Open-minded, not wishy-washy
Dedicated, not obsessive
Selfless, not a martyr
Believe one's word is a bond and act accordingly
Help others when possible, and help them help themselves
Live in the moment but not for the moment
Give respect and expect it in return
Take risks in life rather than always playing it safe
Look beyond the obvious, question assumptions (even your own)
Willing to change and make change in light of what you see
Have a quick wit and an easy laugh but only when appropriate, and enjoy the same in others
Fearless and steadfast, especially in the face of fear
Love to learn from and about others, try and experience new things
Chart your own course rather than follow the path laid out before you
Love to travel and explore
Practise a quiet spirituality
City person, cosmopolitan and urbane but appreciate nature and a simple life
Like chocolate
Some commonality of interest, activity or outlook would be ideal.
Things about me that may interest you:
Always put my right shoe on first
Not currently engaged in martial arts but plan to resume
I have many books. They are neither bound in leather nor does the scent of mahogany permeate my home
Difficult to impress. That includes beautiful, famous and powerful people. (This excludes intelligence and character.)
To my mind, kickboxing is not the sport of the future
In reality, I'm younger than this site tells me I am
I am amused when people insist on good spelling and grammar but are oblivious to their own errors
"In Da Club" is still catchy but unlike 50 Cent, you're not likely to find me there.
Addicted to news
I stop to smell the roses.
What others (female friends) say about me:
"There must be a BagHim.com website dedicated to you because you have to be Toronto's most eligible bachelor!"
"I've never met a guy who likes chocolate as much as you do."
"The first time we met, I knew you were very smart - that was obvious. But I thought you didn't have a sense of humour. BOY, was I WRONG!" (Who doesn't enjoy sharing laughter with others?)
"Wow! You ARE Jack Bauer!" (That's a reference to the main character in 24, a man who stands by his principles and does whatever it takes to solve problems, meet his responsibilities and achieve his goals. I am not as intense or extreme as he is, but I do strive to do good things.)
"You make me feel like a princess."
"Girls are intimidated by you because you are genuinely interested in what they think. That's scary for a lot of them because they are afraid you might judge them for being stupid." (I can count on one hand the number of truly stupid people who I have met in my entire life. You don't have to be a rocket scientist... but that would be kind of cool!)
"If you were older, I would marry you."
"When I first met you I thought you were an arrogant jerk. Then I realized you were just listening."
"You are a true Renaissance man."
"You make me feel safe."
You
I received a few messages out of the blue from one of the crazies on this site (I guess I shouldn't be surprised... there are bound to be a few), so here's a public service message to consider if you plan to contact anyone (Feel free to copy or modify it for your own use):
If you approach life angry, unhappy, insecure, feel compelled to attack or insult random strangers or generally lack a sense of humour...
1. Why are you here?
2. Seek professional help.
3. Take your medication.
4. Learn to spell.
5. Get a life.
6. Don't message me.
If the above does not apply to you, please proceed.
The "Intent" part of the profile is limiting and fails to allow for a precise expression of your outlook. I'm not on a mission or prejudging anything yet open to the potential for greatness.
My name is not Lloyd Dobler. I'm much cooler than him. (The name is an allusion. That's different than an "illusion".) I'm not a kickboxer or a scientist. I don't sell, buy or process anything as a career...
This site is a departure for me. I've never sought to "date" anyone. At a friend's insistent urging, I suppose I signed on to break from routine (or boredom). I chose the "dating" category to reach more people. I am a man, not a "guy." If you don't understand that, we may not see eye to eye but most get along with me just fine.
I've found even those who claim to be unremarkable are often somehow fascinating. Being open to that can help foster relationships and let them progress naturally rather than predetermining an outcome.
If you share even a few of these traits or aspire with me, we'll get along famously:
Honest, direct, forthright, principled, responsible
Easygoing/laid-back, not lazy
Demanding of yourself and others, not controlling
Assertive, not aggressive
Loyal, not blind
Patient, not indecisive
Focused, not closed off
Open-minded, not wishy-washy
Dedicated, not obsessive
Selfless, not a martyr
Believe one's word is a bond and act accordingly
Help others when possible, and help them help themselves
Live in the moment but not for the moment
Give respect and expect it in return
Take risks in life rather than always playing it safe
Look beyond the obvious, question assumptions (even your own)
Willing to change and make change in light of what you see
Have a quick wit and an easy laugh but only when appropriate, and enjoy the same in others
Fearless and steadfast, especially in the face of fear
Love to learn from and about others, try and experience new things
Chart your own course rather than follow the path laid out before you
Love to travel and explore
Practise a quiet spirituality
City person, cosmopolitan and urbane but appreciate nature and a simple life
Like chocolate
Some commonality of interest, activity or outlook would be ideal.
Things about me that may interest you:
Always put my right shoe on first
Not currently engaged in martial arts but plan to resume
I have many books. They are neither bound in leather nor does the scent of mahogany permeate my home
Difficult to impress. That includes beautiful, famous and powerful people. (This excludes intelligence and character.)
To my mind, kickboxing is not the sport of the future
In reality, I'm younger than this site tells me I am
I am amused when people insist on good spelling and grammar but are oblivious to their own errors
"In Da Club" is still catchy but unlike 50 Cent, you're not likely to find me there.
Addicted to news
I stop to smell the roses.
What others (female friends) say about me:
"There must be a BagHim.com website dedicated to you because you have to be Toronto's most eligible bachelor!"
"I've never met a guy who likes chocolate as much as you do."
"The first time we met, I knew you were very smart - that was obvious. But I thought you didn't have a sense of humour. BOY, was I WRONG!" (Who doesn't enjoy sharing laughter with others?)
"Wow! You ARE Jack Bauer!" (That's a reference to the main character in 24, a man who stands by his principles and does whatever it takes to solve problems, meet his responsibilities and achieve his goals. I am not as intense or extreme as he is, but I do strive to do good things.)
"You make me feel like a princess."
"Girls are intimidated by you because you are genuinely interested in what they think. That's scary for a lot of them because they are afraid you might judge them for being stupid." (I can count on one hand the number of truly stupid people who I have met in my entire life. You don't have to be a rocket scientist... but that would be kind of cool!)
"If you were older, I would marry you."
"When I first met you I thought you were an arrogant jerk. Then I realized you were just listening."
"You are a true Renaissance man."
"You make me feel safe."
You
I received a few messages out of the blue from one of the crazies on this site (I guess I shouldn't be surprised... there are bound to be a few), so here's a public service message to consider if you plan to contact anyone (Feel free to copy or modify it for your own use):
If you approach life angry, unhappy, insecure, feel compelled to attack or insult random strangers or generally lack a sense of humour...
1. Why are you here?
2. Seek professional help.
3. Take your medication.
4. Learn to spell.
5. Get a life.
6. Don't message me.
If the above does not apply to you, please proceed.
First Date
The answer is: It depends.
First, the "I am looking for" option on this site artificially limits possibilities. People should get to know each other as individuals instead of predetermining that they are interested in "dating." That label cuts us off from potentially enriching relationships that we might otherwise enjoy. (That's not a veiled reference to a no-strings-attached fling or the like -- that's never held any appeal. I've been pursued in that manner in ways that many guys would call a dream come true -- and have always turned those offers down.)
So, while this says I am interested in "dating," what I mean is that I have no limiting expectations.
With that out of the way, back to the question: What would you do for a first meeting?
Ferry ride and stroll on the islands?
Dinner in a cozy little restaurant?
Discovering the town and wherever that leads?
Run or a bike ride (path or light trail) and an apres-activity activity?
Photography, art, museum or other cultural exhibit or event?
Movie and a bite to eat or a coffee?
Ice skating in the summer?
The activity or event isn't that important. What's important is being at ease to talk and get to know each other. Anything that sets that stage is fine with me.
First, the "I am looking for" option on this site artificially limits possibilities. People should get to know each other as individuals instead of predetermining that they are interested in "dating." That label cuts us off from potentially enriching relationships that we might otherwise enjoy. (That's not a veiled reference to a no-strings-attached fling or the like -- that's never held any appeal. I've been pursued in that manner in ways that many guys would call a dream come true -- and have always turned those offers down.)
So, while this says I am interested in "dating," what I mean is that I have no limiting expectations.
With that out of the way, back to the question: What would you do for a first meeting?
Ferry ride and stroll on the islands?
Dinner in a cozy little restaurant?
Discovering the town and wherever that leads?
Run or a bike ride (path or light trail) and an apres-activity activity?
Photography, art, museum or other cultural exhibit or event?
Movie and a bite to eat or a coffee?
Ice skating in the summer?
The activity or event isn't that important. What's important is being at ease to talk and get to know each other. Anything that sets that stage is fine with me.
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