Okay, so this may be a bit cynical but hopefully you all listen. Get off the computer and get into the real world. I tried this thing for 2 years with no luck. Met a couple of people. Got stood up by a few more. Talked to tons of you girls that sounded like you were interested in actually meeting someone but were too afraid to take the leap. But now I'm actually happy. I have been dating somebody beautiful for 6 months now and I forgot that I actually had this account. She's an amazing person that truly completes me. A real soul mate. But I met her while I was actually out and about. If this site is for social fun for you, then great. But if you are somebody like I was, and you are actually searching for that special someone that can become your best friend and partner in this life long journey that we are on, then get out and there and say hi to somebody. Strike up a conversation with a stranger, if for no other reason than to just be friendly. Who knows what that stranger could end up meaning to you. For me, she ended up being my everything.