I find it an amazing gift, that so many can judge that a person isnt worth a friendship based on looks alone. (Even tho a "start as friends" statment has been made) ...careful how you tread, this may backfire and make you look ugly
ohh...on your path to becoming not single, or find a friend...maybe send a quick reply to those who send a genuine message, even though he/she may not be what you find appealing by their words in the profile, what is wrong with alittle common courtesy
we all have certain expectations of what we want from this place, maybe keep them attainable. some of us are not youngish anymore, but some still have thoughts and expectations of that age. Im sure this will also backfire.
high expectations on your part, are no fault of others and may lead to a lonely life.
some of you who constantly check my profile will notice it has been shortened, i have been here long enough to see its a Shallow pond.
and maybe my few observations will help you open some eyes and look beyond a cover and see something deeper then what your eyes can see.
Heres something that really drives me nuts, just because you are 40-45 50 maybe even younger, whatever age, and want to drink and party or do drugs...theres probably a chance you will not meet "a nice guy" look at your past, read the news paper, listen to friends stories, look at your unhappy friends lives maybe even your own life, leave that strange fantasy thought pattern behind, most times that Just Dont Work out..im sure most of us "nice guys" just want some quiet times, and loving wife a nice home to share together and the excitement of a new future together.
For others who want to travel the world...I truly believe this is a site for Average Income People...working people...average education...average life.
you may find that some cannot afford these things...maybe you should join the Millionaire Sites so someone can keep you happy.
and dont forget, there are so many different backgrounds (good or bad) (baggage if you will) of people on this site...have an open mind, have a conversation, when its the right person, none of this will even matter
oohhh, heres another thing that makes me laugh...."walks on the beach" as a 1st date and/or interest, or hobby...LOL
this is Southern Alberta. Not many beaches here, coulees yes, lots of them, fields of grain...dirt yea, some rocks...not much sand LOL
Woah!...venting is good for the soul
***********im here purely out of boredom now***********
blah blah blah LOL
*im actually curious of your thoughts now that you have read this*
Now if you have made it this far and feel you are a person who is above all this and have truely looked deep inside for what would be "the icing on your cake" "the cats pajamas" by all means, gimme a shout.