A good friend sharpens your character, draws your soul into the light and challenges your heart to love in the greatest ways.
When people ask me "What Do You Do"... I tell them now... "I LIVE MY LIFE WITH MEANING & PURPOSE" I am first and foremost a Mother who will do anything for her blessed daughter ...though a late bloomer to parenthood....I have waited for my baby girl all my life... She entered my world in March of 2012 and without a doubt she is my meaning and purpose to life every day now.
Life hasmade me who I am today...as an Interior Designer, Sales Associate, Customer Service Representative just to name a few....Also I am passionate about being an advocate and support to those that life with Fibromyalgia/FM AND/OR Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/ME, these are chronic pain conditions that can be severely debilitating but also manageable when educated and self aware. As someone who has lived with these conditions. I can say, it truly is about attitude and how you choose to view what life has given you...find the gift in everything!
So Never judge a book by its cover...as they say... But if you lie or embellish things, like your profile for starters...the truth comes out eventually... And with my experience here on POF ...if I find out something is not quite as it was said to be... Chances are your not going to be completely honest in other areas of your life... Including a relationship...if that's you...please move on...I have no time for liars. Honesty in everything we say and do is imperative, if we are truly going to have the ultimate relationship.
We can do anything we set our mind to... Things just may be different in how we achieve them...but make no mistake... I am driven and intend to do as much as I can in my life to support and love my significant other, my family, my friends and people that touch my life.
On this journey I have come to learn...everything happens for a reason... I am however looking for someone who compliments our lives, my daughter's and myself, they have the same views and core values... Having my daughter has taught me just the kind of man I am intended for and more importantly deserving of. I am not opposed to you having children or wanting more... I may be a late bloomer but I've still got a few good years left in me to add to a family if that is important to you! LOL
I want you to be my best friend...and I yours... For there to be no secrets...but complete honesty, love,devotion, trust and of course with a dash of humour and keen witt to add to the mix. You will also value the importance of open communication and be completely comfortable at expressing your feelings. Talking about things does not mean it is drama....a relationship takes work and I am fully prepared to experince the good with the bad....as long as we are by each others side, fully in support of one another.
I am ultimately seeking a man in the range of mid thirties to mid forties. I am a couple months into "40" now...and I know myself and love myself better then ever... This also means this Mama is by no means a hard core partier anymore and especially am not 420 friendly or drug tolerant/or of addictive behaviours. It is key to me that I have people in my life that are good role models around my daughter.
You will make me want to be a better woman, mother, daughter, sister, friends and yes... ultimately one day a better wife...and I hope I will do the same for you.... I still am a romantic at heart and value a lifetime commitment to one another. The paragraph below sums him up in a nut shell... with of course a few idiosyncrasies and style thrown into the mix...just to make him unique...
What A Real Man Does
A real man is a woman's best friend. He will never stand her up and never let her down.
He will reassure her when she feels insecure and comfort her after a bad day.
He will inspire her to do things she never thought she could do; to live without fear and forget regret.
He will enable her to express her deepest emotions and give in to her most intimate desires.
He will make sure she always feels as though she's the most beautiful woman in the room and will enable her to be the most confident, sexy, seductive, and invincible....
I wanna man that... walks beside me, not in front or behind me...in Mind, Body & Soul!!
If this sounds like you...then I hope to hear from you! As a mother with a young child I do not have the same kind of time to dedicate to an "online" relationship.... I am looking for a real everyday relationship... with sure the initially texting and phone calls...but lets make it happen and meet sooner then later... Life is short and I dont want to spend it online... I want it in real time...with you! ;)
You don't have to impress me...Just be yourself... & the rest will work itself out...YOU DO NEED TO IMPRESS ME THOUGH WITH INTEGRITY, HONESTY AND RESPECT...ITS ABOUT BEING THOUGHTFUL, KIND & ENDEARING!!
On a side note....I have to admit every time I read a profile and get to the fish personality....when people dont pick one....it says NO PERSONALITY.....and I am tempted to stop reading the profile. Lol. I can't be the only one who thinks this is funny right!?!? :-P
HOPE... Is that thing with Feathers...That perches in the Soul...That Sings the Tune without the Words... And never Stops At All...
~ Emily D!ckinson~
A Time For Everything
For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die:
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what has been planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
A time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to seek, and a time to lose;
A time to keep, and a time to cast away;
A time to tear, and a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate;
A time for war, and a time for peace.