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| About | Non-smoker with Athletic body type | City | Tacoma Washington | ||
| Details | 29 year old Man, 5' 11" (180cm), Non-Religious | Ethnicity | Caucasian Sagittarius with Brown hair | ||
| Intent | Searchlight wants to date but nothing serious. | Education | Bachelors degree | ||
| Personality | Profession | Data Analyst. Soon to be student again |
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| I am Seeking a | Woman | For | Intimate encounter | |
| Needs Test | View his relationship needs | Chemistry | Not Completed | |
| Do you drink? | I do not drink | Do you want children? | No | |
| Marital Status | Single | Do you do drugs? | No | |
| Pets | No Pets | Eye Color | Other | |
| Do you have a car? | N/A | Do you have children? | No | |
| Longest Relationship | Over 5 years |
About Me
Truth. How rare is this? I would propose that most men who are on this site looking for anything but "long-term" relationships are instead actually looking for sex. It's the nature of the gender, my friend. But what that really means is that the male is trying to perform the human mating dance, and in the process is giving signals to the female that she interprets as a genuine interest in starting up a serious emotionally-invested relationship.
I've come to realize that it's a kind of deceit, though one entered into by both. She knows, though hopes against it, that this guy is really out to get into her pants. But if that's entirely true, why is she upset when he never calls her back?
For this reason, I'm trying complete honesty, and avoiding the normal rituals. It's not that I'm incapable of love, but that's not what comes first and you can't expect it. I'm not going to lie to you just to get you in the sack. I'm looking for friends without the barrier of being "just friends". But if a good friendship without sex came of this, why should I complain? Not every one of my friends are also lovers.
On the other hand, I understand that sex has an emotional component (good sex anyway). I just want you to realize that I don't want you to have my puppies, I don't want to get married, I don't want to one day buy a condo in Florida with you. That doesn't mean we can't just be happy here and now.
That said, I'm the talented, pleasant guy you're searching for. I'm also an exceptionally understanding, patient, and reasonable person. If there is a fantasy you've always thought about but didn't want to ask your partner for, ask me. I might not be willing to do it, but you'll never feel bad about asking me.
I'm in an open relationship with my girlfriend. We each pursue lovers separately, but we do have a couple or two who we're kind of close with ;) Questions about this are welcome and encouraged.
And if someone came along and all three of us were compatible, maybe we'd end up with a little family of three. Or however many. Life is too short and precious to let amazing people pass you by.
I've come to realize that it's a kind of deceit, though one entered into by both. She knows, though hopes against it, that this guy is really out to get into her pants. But if that's entirely true, why is she upset when he never calls her back?
For this reason, I'm trying complete honesty, and avoiding the normal rituals. It's not that I'm incapable of love, but that's not what comes first and you can't expect it. I'm not going to lie to you just to get you in the sack. I'm looking for friends without the barrier of being "just friends". But if a good friendship without sex came of this, why should I complain? Not every one of my friends are also lovers.
On the other hand, I understand that sex has an emotional component (good sex anyway). I just want you to realize that I don't want you to have my puppies, I don't want to get married, I don't want to one day buy a condo in Florida with you. That doesn't mean we can't just be happy here and now.
That said, I'm the talented, pleasant guy you're searching for. I'm also an exceptionally understanding, patient, and reasonable person. If there is a fantasy you've always thought about but didn't want to ask your partner for, ask me. I might not be willing to do it, but you'll never feel bad about asking me.
I'm in an open relationship with my girlfriend. We each pursue lovers separately, but we do have a couple or two who we're kind of close with ;) Questions about this are welcome and encouraged.
And if someone came along and all three of us were compatible, maybe we'd end up with a little family of three. Or however many. Life is too short and precious to let amazing people pass you by.
First Date
We could go out and do something first, but if you're reading my profile it means you're looking for more carnal entertainment. I'm open to suggestions, but I have a few great ideas of my own for a "check each other out" date.
It's not a pressure thing. I'm not crass enough to be all over you unless you're giving that signal. Give me at least some credit, some guys really are still classy. And a night out with a nice woman is still fun even if it doesn't lead to something physical.
It's not a pressure thing. I'm not crass enough to be all over you unless you're giving that signal. Give me at least some credit, some guys really are still classy. And a night out with a nice woman is still fun even if it doesn't lead to something physical.
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