Actually i know it is nice to have things planned but if the date was in short term the person which is your date probably has not had a chance to decribe what she like to do or not. So it would be better to go over these first, and come up with a plan, rather than for me to do what i would want to do that i would like and most girls might like. And actually if my date did not like what i did if it were like that i would actually not like it at all myself for making the mistake. Lets discuss it and plan it together. This is how it would be if we were together anyway,, I would though make plans that would be suprises,, and would allow for chance that she would not have the time or accept what i planned myself for her in the future if we have one. Some things have to be spurratic. Like roses..