Cant anyone keep it real anymore? Cant people take time to get to know someone before sex, before sexting, before judging? Please get me out of this dating scene. I hate it. I just want to find a commitment and work towards marriage and a family. Im not one of your typical dudes, and i dont want to be treated like i am a typical dude.
My name is Louie. I am 34 years old,. (taurus)
I am a father to a amazing awesome almost 4 year old baby girl. She is everything i could ever have wanted in a kid, she is definitly a daddys girl.
I am about 14 months removed from leaving my ex (the mother of my child) i was with her almost 7 years. I realized i need someone in my life who wont cheat, who will treat me like i deserve to be treated.
I am employed, i have a awesome job, altho i do work a lot. I make good money and i love it, i do have weekends off.
Im looking for my soulmate, yea i know who believes in that stuff, well- i do. i know she is out there, i will be patient and wait for her.
Im not looking for a mother to my child. she has one. I am looking for someone to get to know and eventually introduce each other and we can do fun little outings, i take my daughter out on a date every saturday, we always do something fun.... i wish i had someone special to share both our hearts.
Im 5-10 under 300 pounds. Im confident, im super sweet, altho i can be blunt sometimes being from new york.
I do have a car, its reliable i love it. I dont have my own home, i rent a room in house in kent, while i save to buy a house and rebuild my credit.
Im a smoker, (ciggs) but trying to quit- i just spend 130$ on a nice mechanical vape to try and quit smoking.
I dont do drugs, even the legal ones. (i really dont care if you smoke weed-- doesnt bug me just dont ask me to partake)
I drink on occasion.
I prefer slim to chubby or curvy woman. its my preference. Its what i like. . Maybe i can find a woman who can motivate me to loose more wieght- i have lost over 100 pounds last two years.
Im very active, my job is physicaly demanding, i am far from lazy.
Im real- get to know me. Im worth getting to know, im not looking for sex, PERIOD, im a big cuddler tho, and i am respectful above all else.
if your bold, find me on facebook louis vashi
Please, no games, and yes attraction is important please send pics, its not the only thing but there has to be attraction for chemistry.
Somewhere were we can just be ourselves. A place we can get to know each other. Maybe a coffee or dinner somewhere (casual) . something where we could just both take off if its not working out. A movie is definitely a second date, im not gonna sit with someone ive never met for 2 hours and not talk.
Also a first date is NOT at my place or yours. PERIOD- i am old fashioned.