Ok so I decided to try this out to see what happens and see what is out there. Ironically I found the name of this site interesting for the fact I have always had a fascination with salt reef aquariums and have had aquariums most of my life.
ok so the perks of me in a nut shell:
I do not come with any so called baggage. No childish exes that I have kids with, no ex wives, and I do not hold resentment to all women for what a few have done in the past. I see each woman as an individual with a clean slate and as a new beginning. I realize those who wronged me in my past were individuals and don't hold any woman to others wrong doings.
I can cook and do it reasonably well, and I have studied massage therapy for over 10 years now.
I am an independent person and am not looking for a sugar mama. I can take care of my own finances.
I don’t go to bars much. Though they are fun to do on occasion, But I am more of the gamer geek type.
I have lost interest in the single life and find myself wanting something a bit more real and stable in my life. This means finding one and just one woman to share experiences and good times with. Not to say I am wanting to rush into anything, but would be nice to find someone that I have interest in seeing where things go.
I am an equalist. Definitely not a control freak. I think that it is good to alternate power within a relationship.
In my former profession I have acquired quite a few skills. one of which I acquired the skills to make just about anything I can see or picture in my mind.
In pursuit of a new carrier I have acquired 3 associates degrees getting ready to finish out my bachelors in Green or Eco Engineering / Chemical Engineering. Basically I want to redesign common products to become more eco friendly and less biologically toxic. not a complete tree hugger but I do have respect for nature.
Also I have acquired the ability to fix just about anything I put my hands on. With this I am my own mechanic, plumber, carpenter, and electrician.
One of my best skills is that I make people smile or laugh. My sense of hummer floats somewhere around the ironic, sarcastic, and the just plain wrong area( If you know Gary Larsons "The farside" you will understand), but that depends on the time, place, or company I am in.
Things I am into:
Interest's span over a little bit of everything from cooking to off Broadway shows like stomp or circuqe du soliel. Going out to a comedy club, the local cinema, museums, roller coaster parks aquarium / zoo’s, live musical concerts, or staying in and watching movies (any kind works but a huge fan of Tim Burton), playing video games, board games, cards or whatever seems fun at the time. For me it is not entirely on what is done that makes it interesting but the company that is kept.
What I find attractive or I am looking for:
- a woman who is able to express her thoughts and opinions in a civil way.
- having goals or the desire to achieve more than just what life throws at them.
- someone who can communicate well and has their own ideas and thoughts.
- A good sense of humor with a touch of competitiveness is always fun.
It would be nice to find someone who holds honesty and trust in high regard. Beyond that, someone who I can make smile, and who I can make happy. One that makes me want to give them the world, yet they would never ask. Though not necessarily a requirement but I find I am attracted to someone who can keep up in a good intelligent conversation. If you can do this you will always have my attention. Also I find it attractive when they can take a joke, and then dish it back at me to keep me on my toes and keeps things light and fun..
If you would like to know more, send me a message and ask away. I am open about most things, well.. within reason.. and am looking forward to meeting some good people to get to know. until then.. smile ( it makes people wonder what you are thinking ) lol
Disclaimer: if you are married, looking to play games, or are all about ghetto or “thug” life, please move on. I have grown past that and wish to have a grown up kind of relationship. I have no desire to play childish games.. Also if you are not able to communicate without using ghetto slang in every sentence or not able to distinguish between english and ebonics please move on. Or if you are liar, cheat, or out to use people .. please move on.. in my time I have grown to rather dislike that type of person and do not wish to waste my time having them in my life.
Trying to answer this is like trying to pick out what you are going to were months in advanced. I would have to say that it would depend on the person as to what we would do. but as a generic, maybe go to a coffee shop or dinner. Do something where we could chat and learn more about eachother..