FYI: I am unable to see "wants to meet you" messages. When you click that option - unless you're making a list for yourself you're wasting your time. I have no way to know who you are, see your profile or send you a message. If you want to meet or get to know me - please email me. One more thing - I won't respond to "hey there" messages. I don't know if this is an option women have or if it happens automatically when you make some kind of selection (like perhaps adding to favorites list).
Single professional in Roseville looking for a fun, sexy, mature, drama-free woman for friendship and romance. I work in higher education as a Systems Analyst in the East Bay and love my job and the people I work with. I have lots of interests (check out my list) and love to get out and do things with fun and interesting people. I am compassionate, loving, passionate, sensuous, intelligent, funny, playful, well-grounded, laid back and open-minded. I can fit easily into most situations and sometimes am generous to a fault.
I come from a large family and am the oldest of five siblings. My Dad is in his 80s and the men on his side of the family tend to live long. I lost my Mom to cancer in 1999 and a younger brother to cancer in 2016. Both were way too young and I miss them both. I have two daughters and a step-daughter. I have two step-grandsons, a 3-year old grandson and a baby grand-daughter on the way in April.
I am looking to meet a woman who is kind and caring, compassionate, open minded, communicates well, honest, and above all has integrity. Someone who knows what she wants and will not give up until she gets it, is passionate, a great kisser (and loves to kiss as much as I do) and is appreciative of a man who gives her the attention she deserves. She doesn't play games, nor does she lie or mislead. She says what she means and means what she says.
I do wish some of the options on here were multiple choice. If one indicates their intent is "Relationship" but then doesn't specify "Long-Term" - is it contradictory? I am interested in a relationship when I meet the right woman. That doesn't mean I'm going to jump into one with the first woman I go on a 2nd or 3rd date with. That said, I do believe in love at first sight, and also believe that something that starts out as "just for fun" can turn into love (and an intense love affair). Both have happened to me in my lifetime. I'm open to casual dating too - and no, that doesn't mean I'm looking for one-night stands. Dating should be fun - getting to know someone should be fun, not tedious. Let's have fun and see what life has in store for us.
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Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I'm open to anything. Coffee, jamba juice or an adult beverage of your choice (although I really don't drink much anymore - but don't mind if you do). I prefer something short and sweet for the first time we meet. Someplace we can talk and get to know each other, laid back, no pressure, no expectations, no hard feelings. If we are so drawn to each other that we don't want that first meeting to end - my schedule will be open enough that we can get a bite to eat or whatever we choose. For an actual "date", let's do something fun. Golf, tennis, pool, a bike ride, a hike in the mountains, or take a drive someplace. Galleries or museums downtown, Old Sac, San Fran, Tahoe, or a Giants, River Cats, 49er, Sharks or Kings game.