I love how people say they are looking for someone that is real but when you are real they can't handle it. Me? I plan on enjoying life to it's fullest. I am looking for positive individuals to make memories with, as friends or something more if it comes to that. I have been through enough to know who I am as a person and what I am looking for in someone. I am a fun loving, caring,spontaneous,passionate and intelligent.
I could waste time by telling you that I’ll be the best that you’ve ever had, that there is no other like me, and one night with me is better than 10 nights with the last guy. I could make promises using numbers and statistics to try to convince you that I am the one you should try to live without. I could go into details about the things that I can do and the way I can make you feel, making grandiose statements and grand promises. I could speak like that, but there’s only one problem with that: It’s not me and I do not have that type of ego. To be completely honest it’s not that serious to me. All that I can do is this; I can actually listen to you when you talk and I can vary myself to what your needs are. I can let go of my inhibitions if you can promise to do the same. I can show you better than I can tell you. I believe in pleasing both mind and spirit before body. I can be confident without arrogance I can be explicit without vulgarity.
All that I ask that you allow me the opportunity.
I think a first date should be doing something mutually agreeable but somewhat new to both individuals. I like the idea of a something intimate yet public, like a museum or park, sidewalk cafe or bistro. Let me take you to a comedy club and let us laugh together. I'm all for comfort and making my partner comfortable. The first date is essentially the "get-to-know-you" date. The first real face-to-face where you feel one another out and allow yourselves to enjoy the chemistry.