I love how people say they are looking for someone that is real but when you are real they can't handle it. Me? I can only be true to me and what i want. No time for playing games. Sometimes, it is what it is but as long as there is a connection then it's worth exploring. I am looking for positive individuals to make memories with, as friends or whatever actually comes out of it. I have been through enough to know who I am as a person and what I am looking for in someone. I am a fun loving, caring,spontaneous,passionate and intelligent. I carry myself well and would like to be surrounded with the same.
Just being real.. if the dreaded n-word is apart of your everyday vocabulary then pass me by.Not my style and I have zero interests in having it apart of my life.
I think a first date should be doing something mutually agreeable but somewhat new to both individuals. I like the idea of a something intimate yet public, like a museum or park, sidewalk cafe or bistro. Let me take you to a comedy club and let us laugh together. I'm all for comfort and making my partner comfortable. The first date is essentially the "get-to-know-you" date. The first real face-to-face where you feel one another out and allow yourselves to enjoy the chemistry.