"Falling in love is easy. Having sex is easier. But bumping into someone that can spark your soul, that sh-t is rare."
Everyone has a two "types". Ones that they gravitate towards and ones that gravitates towards them. Sometimes we get really lucky and that person is one and the same. So here I am once again trying my luck. I love how people say they are looking for someone that is real but when you are real they can't handle it. Real isn't always pretty but it is honest and we live in a world where many feel its better to be fake and lie to protect ourselves than to be honest and gain real respect. Me? I can only be true to who I am and what I want. A real connection. I want comfortable silences. Shared weird looks that only we understand. Passionate kisses and hugs that warm your soul. I want a connection that goes beyond laying in bed and making sweat together. Sometimes, it is what it is but as long as there is a connection then it's worth exploring. I want to laugh out loud. Be goofy and spontaneous at times. Sing loudly no matter how bad it is together. I want to be pushed to better and I want to be confident in knowing that you have my back REGARDLESS. I am looking for positive individuals to make memories with, as friends or whatever actually comes out of it. I'm grown. I have my sh-t together. I try to be a respectful, responsible adult and a father at all times. I try to be caring, considerate, spontaneous, passionate and still showcase a fair amount of intelligence. I carry myself well and do my damnedest to hold my own in decent conversations and I would like to be surrounded with the same. No matter how sarcastic, in depth or slapstick funny the tide may turn.
Just being real.. if the dreaded n-word is apart of your everyday vocabulary then pass me by. Not my style and I have zero interests in having it apart of my life. My choice, my preference and all that I ask is that you respect that.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I think a first date should be doing something mutually agreeable but somewhat new to both individuals. I like the idea of a something intimate yet public, like a museum or park, sidewalk cafe or bistro. Let me take you to a comedy club and let us laugh together. I'm all for comfort and making my partner comfortable. The first date is essentially the "get-to-know-you" date. The first real face-to-face where you feel one another out and allow yourselves to enjoy the chemistry.