In a nutshell.. no sales pitch here..
I not an average guy, not cut from the same mold or pattern.. I have my own identity, individuality, as everyone else, qualities and improvements to work on, down to earth, easy-going, open-minded, well read.. well travelled, sense of humour, good listener, confident, independent, good old moral values, and a little on the conservative side.
I have lived, studied, and worked in a few countries in this continent, Europe, and few other places, I am lucky, I have seen and exposed to broader perspectives of life. I have learned to appreciate and enjoy the important, significant and simpler things life offers. At the same time learnt to differentiate between needs and wants... BIG difference..
I like to communicate, exchange ideas, opinions about any topic.. at the same time, learn something new every day..
I would like to meet someone who; has her own personality.. knows her own distinctiveness.., is confident, mature, has a high self-esteem, independent, well read, expressive, not afraid to communicate.. open-minded.. with an opinion, very important.. a curious and beautiful mind, critical thinker.. with traditional values.. She knows when and how to take it easy.. enjoys and lives life.. knows and follows the KISS principle.
I am not looking for the typical cliché. I am looking for depth.
Communication; a two way communication is one of the the most important factors of human interaction, in this context, for developing and building relationships.. as a matter of fact.. almost anything we put our minds on...
Do not complicate life or relationships, a few underlining principles:
Missing somebody? Call
Want to meet? Invite
Want to be understood? Explain
Have questions? Ask
Do not like something? Say it
Like something? State it
Want something? Ask for it
Love someone? Tell them
Let's keep it Simple!
Life is and can be simple..or simpler as we approach it.. for some reason.. we complicate it. "human" factor in action.
On that note. What is a relationship? I guess, everyone has a different interpretation based on their own experiences or environmental influences (too much tele).
I have found these thought on a few profiles..
“ I believe great relationships are ones where there is ease of communication, honesty, humour, friendship, trust, respect, support and of course mutual physical attraction.
" Physical attractions are common, but a real mental connection is rare. if you find it, hold on to it.
"If you have a penny and I have a penny and we exchange pennies, you still have one cent and I still have one cent. But if you have an idea and I have an idea and we exchange ideas, you now have two ideas and I now have two ideas." This thought can be applied to relationships.
Brilliant woman She knows something!!!
A few words of wisdom..I am sure everyone will agree with, they do fit the context.
"Destiny is not a matter of chance,
It is a matter of choice;
It is not a thing to be waited for,
It is a thing to be achieved.
“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results...”
Something to think about on the endless search for the elusive 'chemistry'... Look where "Chemistry" has landed us. Chemistry is something you develop.. there is a process to achieve it.. something you nurture.. similar to relationships.. Isn't it!?
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Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
First get together... simple, have a coffee / tea, go for a walk, the objective is to talk.. SHOULD NOT BE A JOB INTERVIEW.
The objective.. to get to know a little about each other... feel conformable.. at ease, motivate two-way communication, then, we shall know whether we have anything in common.
If we find we are in the same wave length.. frequency.. or we find we have some common interests, then, a real date.