GEEZ..... the first date. when i meet someone for the first time i belive that the first date is more like an interview, ( dont you?). i mean, on the first date you dont really know anything about the other person. so you ask questions to see if you would have a spark to make you want to go on another date with them.. So to answer the question, i think i would have to say that i would kind of go on a pre-first date, like coffee. Yeah coffee. it can be something quick and simple incase you arent feeling the person, or you can always extend the evening if you click.