6'3, and a little soft around the edges. the pic isn't exactly new, but there aren't exactly a lot of changes either.. single, male, 34, in victoria bc. working graveyards at a downtown convenience store. no it's not as bad as it sounds (most of the time), but there are a few drawbacks to it in the life-outside-work areas.
i'm warm, cuddly, caring, affectionate, and all that. i flirt a lot coz no one's made any claim on me yet.. and i get a bit depressed sometimes, because i'm human and loneliness sucks.
i'm calm, gentle, understanding, loving, caring, affectionate. i don't get jealous (much).. i'm not aggressive.. tho sometimes i come on pretty strong, apparently. i'm not dominant. i am NOT alpha-male personality.. which also means no, i'm not going to pick a fight with someone just because they happened to look at you.
i'm not into sports, or pretty much anything more competitive than a computer game. i've watched enough sports with friends to get the idea.. but i just can't get into it myself. another game i'm not into is head-games, and i don't think of women as a competitive sport either.
i like staying in or going out.. quiet evenings alone with that special someone.. get togethers with friends.. loud music.. whatever. i want to spend time with someone special. it's who i'm with that makes me enjoy the activity as much as what the activity itself is.
for dating, i'm looking for someone who is openminded, intelligent, and honest. also someone who doesn't play headgames. i don't play them, i don't really fall for them, and i've got better things to do with my time than try and worm my way thru them. don't you?
so if you've managed to put up with my rambling and ranting this long.. why not drop me a line?
it really depends doesn't it? waiting to see who i meet, and what they like before i make any plans on where we go, as long as it's some place we'll both be comfortable at. dinner and a movie? walk on the beach? out for coffee (or pop, or hot chocolate, or...)? something else? i'm open. fun is who you're with, not where you go.