First Date
A neutral setting would be the best, Dinner planned at a nice resteraunt perhaps, or a movie date to find appropriate companionship for the evening. Someplace where EACH person invovled would feel comfortable (If that is possible) and gauge whether or not the person they meet might be a good bed partner. That is after all what this entire scenario is about,finding someone pleasing to the partner involved (male or female) to cuddle, hold, fondle, tease, please , and hopefully give them plenty of Orgasms.