Here I'll put it at the top, for those of you who don't actually read the whole profile.. I'm currently dating seriously, living with, and hope to marry Jeremy. (aka alchemywolf) So I'm looking ONLY for plutonic relationships. Meaning friends, and no more. I've lived in a different place each year for the past 4 years. What I keep finding, but am only now beginning to realize...is that reality tv is true. Or.."drama" tv is true. Whatever you chose to call it..I don't like tv and have never watched much of it except for shows like Spongebob, Southpark, Brak, Family Guy, ect..I have always thought that it was pretty silly, and that noone actually acted like that. Unfortunately though, I think that we do. I've learned that no matter where you go and who becomes part of your life after a years time at most you begin to see what's really going on. There are little drama's everywhere..life is like a book. I guess that is because people write about what they know, and what is. Sometimes a book or a movie will be written that surprises or scares people, but the most surprising, and the most scary are those that could "actually happen" in most people's minds. I wonder why that is..and why the random and "impossible" ones don't have the same effect..Those are the ones that I enjoy. I like books that make you think, and make you wonder what else could be. It seems like, and from what I've seen in each place, people are lead along by what happens in life, and just go along never really stepping back to look at the big picture. Or, a lot of people, I've met a few who are not quite the same. I like to stop and look out at the world as if I'm not part of it, but not too often, because sometimes living this little silly human life is entertaining and I don't want to miss too much. I wonder when or if everyone in the world will suddenly stop and look at ourselves and laugh..and then go on to do something a little more intelligent. I wonder what distracted us in the first place..that made us run around without taking notice of what was really going on. I know that there are other people out there who find stepping out of reality for a moment to look at what is going on as entertaining as I do, so I would like to meet some of them. Are you? One final note, I AM CURRENTLY DATING--and hope to marry-- JEREMY (Alchemywolf) so I am not interested in meeting anyone for a relationship other than hangout, friends, or chat buddies. If you are not interested in having me as a platonic friend, please move on.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Totally depends on the person, of course! There are some people who would make a great first date by meeting up for lunch, then going to an event..or hiking, rock climbing, whatever..getting some ice cream and hanging out in the shade getting to know each other for a few hours..and ending it mudding in the dark or driving back roads trying to get lost..but those are pretty amazing people. Usually..you don't know if you'd want to spend half the day with someone before you've met them for the first time, so unless we did, a regular ol' date works just as well. :)