so...just to be clear....the headline isn't entirely accurate. read on.
I guess i'd describe myself as a moderately normal, somewhat intelligent, easy-to-look-at single male with a variety of interests (some of which are actually interesting - art, music, culture, global idiocy, etc). I can be the kindest, most generous and considerate nitwit you've ever met (if I like you). My music tastes are diverse - classical, reggae, old jazz and blues, ambient, funk, and pretty much anything that has rhythm and melody. I am, however, mildly allergic to opera, new country and most commercial radio, rap and that hippity-hoppity stuff. Although i don't watch tv alot, I do have a few shows that I like to catch. Movie preferences lean towards sci-fi, mystery, film noir, documentary and obtuse comedy (no adam sandler fan here).
I'm (usually) chivalrous, respectful and can be a fairly romantic guy with the right lady. I am (in the big picture) looking for a more full-time friend - maybe even a relationship (gasp!). However, I'm not going to rush into something just to fill a void. If we click, we'll know what to do. Subjective requirements are; smart, funny, responsible, moderately fit and mostly sane.
Firstly, our first initial rendezvous can't really be considered a "date"...more like a 'get-to-know-ya' type of thing. A real first date would depend on our mood, motive and the weather.
A few ideas include: go for lunch and watch each other chew, a walkabout, grab a java, say stuff to each other; maybe laugh at other people, the world and/or our selves. Bike ride, kayak, scramble along the rocks, meander through the trees, lie down in the grass and point out the phallic-shaped clouds...and laughing...I hope. Regardless of the scenario, chances are I'll spew some goofy, abstract pseudo-philosophical rubbish - which could spark a healthy debate. Hopefully, you'll reciprocate. If you've read this far, I should probably buy you a drink.
If any of this strikes a chord, then send a note (musical reference)...or not.
(PS - Don't be offended if you send a message and I don't reply. I'm not an ass like that. It just means I feel we're likely not compatible. I have a fairly clear idea of what I'm looking for and will be patient until I find it (as frustrating as that may be). As well, I respect your need for privacy and understand why you may not have a photo in your profile. However, you've seen me so I would think that, by the second or third mail exchange it would be fair to share one of yourself; otherwise I'll lose interest). ....zipp