I was raised to be a gentleman first, so I usually fit the "good man" bill pretty well, and am looking for the "good girl" myself. I also desire someone with that shares enough of my interests, and intelligence in a woman is something I highly value.
I consider my primary virtues to be loyalty, honesty and kindness. I consider my primary flaws to be stubbornness, procrastination, and indecisiveness.
I am looking for a woman that is intelligent, loyal, and kind.
A place like the zoo, the Pacific Science center, lunch and coffee are all good places where you can really get to know someone, as long as you take the time to listen.
I honestly believe that the best and longest lasting romantic relationships usually begin as a friendship. My theory is that once mutual respect is established, you have the foundation for trust. Add chemistry and strong communication, and you should have a fine recipe for romance.