Update: 06/2015 - I am a fairly fit 55 year old from Wildomar,CA. I try hard to stay in decent shape, You should be in decent shape as well... I'm really not a fan of heavy makeup either, or any other "enhancements", I am attracted to natural and FIT gals.
I'm very blue collar, Levi's and boots or shorts and flip flops type of guy, but have been told I "clean up nice" when needed. I also must warn you, I have a pretty wickedly-sarcastic sense of humor, and I can take it as well as dish it out, but really sensitive types need not apply! As for as the religious gals out there...I am Agnostic and anti organized religion ( I was raised as a Catholic...) so if you're very religious, it probably is not going to be a good fit.
I try to stay busy in my off time, I have so little of it these days. I am an outdoor fanatic! I love hiking and camping, fishing and kayaking (it's a tandem Hobie- foot pedal powered, room for both of us!). I've got so many things on my To-Do list and places to go list, I really love to travel, short weekend trips and far-away locales (I've been to central America 5 times!)
I'm looking for that ONE special woman who wants to explore the world and have some fun with me! Very much a one woman man, no time for games.
I also am a big Angels fan, I try to attend at least one game per home stand.
Music is big with me, always playing in the car and at home...over 16000 songs on my iPod...from Blues and Classic rock, to Alternative and 80's, even a little country and reggae.
But the Blues is my absolute favorite, I love live music and especially Blues festivals! ~ Doheny Beach Blues Festival was epic this year!
A Great quote from a very wise man:
Perfect Guys do not exist.
“He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.”
~ Bob Marley
This was from a personality quiz from another dating service, I thought it was pretty spot on :
about my personality"
You are very curious and you love adventure, either or both intellectual and physical. So when you get interested in something, you can become extremely focused on it, sometimes to the exclusion of all around you. You pursue your interests thoroughly, too, often with originality and exactitude.
You are adaptable, competitive and a problem-solver, as well as skeptical, tough minded and determined. Because you have a lot of energy and tend to be enthusiastic about your theories and projects, you can be very persuasive. You are eager to make an impact on those around you, too, as well as in the wider world.
You are irreverent and highly independent. So you can be oblivious to authority figures, as well as to rules, schedules and social customs. And although you enjoy people and can be charming and humorous, you are not interested in routine social engagements or anyone whom you regard as boring. Instead, you seek stimulating and focused conversations; and you are comfortable being by yourself, pursuing your own many interests.
Of all twelve (primary/secondary) types, you are also the most sexual-because both dopamine and testosterone stimulate the sex drive.
relating to others
You like to have good conversations on important topics; so people tend to admire you for your knowledge and innovativeness. You shy away from emotional or self-revealing conversations, however; introspection leaves you cold. Instead, you derive intimacy from doing things with friends or a partner. So you make an exciting, although at times aloof, companion.
love and relationships
As an Explorer, you look out not in; you are foremost interested in the world around you. So you are attracted to a mate who is also intellectually and physically adventurous and interested in dissecting this complex, tangible universe. You particularly like imaginative and theoretical people, a "mind mate." And you like a partner who is sexual, because you regard sex as an important aspect of a relationship. You have nerves of steel and thrive on the edge. You are also decisive and direct. So you are unconsciously drawn to those who can balance out your highly independent and tough-minded spirit--those who are novelty seeking, yet compassionate, verbal, intuitive, trusting, flexible and emotionally expressive.