Hello. First of all I'd like to begin by saying I am blunt and at times a brutally honest person. If you are looking for a hook up I am not interested. DO NOT bother messaging if you are looking for sex! I do not care about your sexual prowess. I cannot be enticed with your bragging. I'm very turned off by it. In fact disgusted by it. I am Interested in spending time with someone getting to know them. I am gregarious which most times is a benefit to my job. I am a BBW and in the process of changing my lifestyle to a healthier one (112 lb loss).I am a Christian, not the "beat you over the head with the bible" type, I dont attend church regularly. I love all types of music some more so than others. the list is long mostly country, classic rock, and oldies. I enjoy boating with friends, shooting guns, dancing and the list goes on I am looking for a gentleman who is respectful, loving, affectionate, even tempered, intelligent, not selfless and not self centered. Hopefully you have a witty sense of humor and dont get offended easily. I would prefer to get to know someone slowly, yet i would like to be pursued. I don't want to chase a man if hes not interested enough to pursue me. What i really dream of is a best friend who is also my partner in life. Comrades, partners in crime ect... Well, I guess that's it...Thank You for taking the time to read. lets see what happens.