Hello. First of all I'd like to begin by saying I am a brutally honest person, and i would like to get something out of the way right in the beginning. I am a BBW and in the process of changing my lifestyle to a healthier one. Now with that out of the way the next bomb i would like to drop is that i am a Christian. I am looking for a gentleman who is respectful, loving, affectionate, even tempered, intelligent, not selfless and not self centered. I would prefer to get to know someone slowly, yet i would like to be pursued. I don't want to chase a man if hes not interested enough to pursue me. What i really dream of is a best friend who is also my partner in life. Comrades, partners in crime ect... Well, I guess that's it... lets see what happens.