Im not looking for a fling, one night stand, Friends with benefits or something like that. Im just looking for someone who would like to have coffee from time to time, go to special events, venues, see a local band, while having drinks and talking.
im looking for someone who is open about anything and everything, i will respect your wishes if you dont want to talk about certain topics, but I dont like it if you have alot to hide about every thing we may talk about. i find that a comfortable, knowledgable and free person is a person that has nothing to hide and nothing to be afraid of.
I like those with ambition and drive, they work hard at what they want and dont let anything stand in thier way. weaknesses are a must, because it shows where you are limited, which makes you stronger, because you know you can overcome these limits and excell.I like those who know who they are, and where they are going and dont depend on others.
now about me: im opinionated, brutally blunt, but will not always tell you the truth depending on what we are talking about or if its something you want to hear but not too honestly. I always offer advice and try not to sound too preachy or a know it all. I always give constructive criticism, even if you dont want to hear it, but in the nicest way possible(yes that does not really make sense, but take it as you will)
Im an active person and used to be a gym fanatic and slowly climbing back on that treadmill to be the way i used to be, Now im not a complete nut about it, i just like to keep my body healthy and love to sweat and build new muscle that i will use for a sport or activity that i enjoy. I enjoy the company of anyone that likes to be active. Im up for anything that requires physical exercion.
when im not running around, i meditate, read, surf the net, play video games...I love video games, i own several consoles and like to play with others online. I like to draw when i have something to draw. I love watching movies and can quote several movies. Im also a huge critic when it comes to tv and movies. if watching tv, then its educational programs, the comedy network or historical programs. I listen to all varieties of music, but the main types are dance, techno, electronica, hip hop, reggae, and industrial tech/ metal, death metal, gore metal, nature/ambience, relaxing music, indie music, blues and oldies.
I try to see the good side of things and always give anything a chance, not to judge after, but to know if i like or dont like. The same goes for people. Im very down to earth, considerate, loving, very dedicated and devoted, be it in a relationship or friend, I WONT LET YOU DOWN or atleast try very hard not to. Im a Protector and am always on guard when it comes to your safety and well-being. Im a big teddy bear. as a student of buddhism, i look at everything with logic and rationality and I tend to over-analyze everything, and when this happens, let me know and correct me, so that i will learn. im currently learning to live life without worry and to become calm always. to shrug things off and not to worry too much about a plan or two that did not happen. as i believe everything has its place, has its reason for happening and know that nothing happens out of nowhere for no reason. I believe in karma..if there is anything else you wish to know about me..let me know!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
On a first date anything can happen, you can plan it but not everything always goes to plan. we can go for drinks, see a local band play or just go for a walk, and find some place in the outdoors to talk about each other.