Looking for a woman who is capable of being well enough adjusted to stand behind me, with me and independantly if need be. Because for my flame, that is what she can expect of me. I want lean and clean. If you can value these things, this would be a good start. A foundation to share and grow enough common values, for passion to endure. A first rendevous would unfold a beginning of discouvery of those values, and further attractions if they exist. Take a chance if you think you may fit the mold. But don't read to much into this, you might be it.