I am a very selective that is why i am here. I am not desperate nor will i settle for second best. For everything to be perfect, both of you should be willing to listen to each other and be honest and open.
play it by ear. what ever happens at the time. I feel both should decide. it seems to make it more intimate that way. Usually on a first date you do not know the person or their likes or dislikes. The fun part about a first date is getting to know the person you are with. But you must be able to have fun and enjoy the moment.