First and foremost, I'm polyamorous. I do have a primary relationship, and am looking for another. I am open for just about anything (one off, casual, long term, etc).
If you are still reading, then here's a little about me. From what I'm told by people close to me, I'm a really great guy. I'm honest, caring, thoughtful, considerate and intelligent. I can carry on a decent conversation on a wide variety of topics. I feel communication is key to the success of any good relationship. Without it, love, trust, loyalty, respect and so on are essentially useless.
I look for the above qualities in the women I would be interested in. In the past, I've fallen in love hard and fast, and I usually get hurt as a result. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I don't really know any other way to be.
I work as a Network Systems Engineer. I love music, movies, Sci-Fi, Comedy, socializing, getting to know people.
I'm not really good at this sort of thing...writing about myself. I'd much rather have a real-time, organic conversation, preferably in person, although I will settle for phone/text/FB etc. If I've shown interest in you, it's because I think you may be interested back as well. Give me a shot, you may just find me to be the man of your dreams, or at least a really awesome friend.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Something low-key to start, like coffee, or dinner. I always leave my whole evening open on a first date, so if things go well, we could check out a movie, go for a walk, or head in for a DVD if the weather's crap. I'm open to suggestions too. You'll know it's going well if I'm making you breakfast in the morning.