I'm getting the jump on the new year by changing up my profile before 2015. I need to fall in line with the short attention span set, so I'm gonna write less and say more:
Nice guy, way better at giving than receiving. I don't care about what you have, it's what you're about that matters to me. Pretentious climbers
please move on to the next profile.
Friendly, approachable, not controlling or jealous, no hidden agenda, many friends, parents still married, no beard, bugs, tatts, or drugs.
Open emotionally, articulate, value communication skills, passionate, affectionate, ready for a relationship. You're likely divorced, which is fine, but please don't be bitter, or try to tell me I lack the ability to commit after you've broken your vows.
I want nothing from you but some of your quality time, and hopefully you'll feel the same about me. At least do a good job of faking not being a taker for a while, instead of showing your hand on the first date - sheesh.
Creative type. Hope you're one as well. If you were a creative cook, that would really float my boat. I dream of cooking with someone.
My main job requires me to dress in a suit. I'm fairly lame with casual clothes, as I'm not in them as often. Maybe you could help me in this dept.
Another job requires me to travel, look like a biker, and sign the occasional body part ; ) But I don't cheat in a relationship, and I
won't tolerate cheating, either. I find women who are secure and confident sexy.
Everyone has a type. Mine is younger than me, svelte, smart, personable and resourceful. I've had the same taste in women since my first date at
16, and it hasn't changed, so please just move on to the next fish if this doesn't describe you.
Money and sex: Focusing on or going without either too much ain't good. And there should be no relationship between the two.
Politics (all the stuff you're supposed to avoid discussing right here): middle of the road Independent. Don't be too liberal or conservative, please.
If you're not the touchy-feely type, please move on to the next guy. Never understood why many folks aren't, but I hope they find each other.
Be literate, well-spoken, and a good reflection on me, and I'll be that for you in return.
I'm big on The Golden Rule, but not so big on religion. Please share my view that manners and politeness take effort, but are worth it.
These are just the basics - there is much more to me and what I'm seeking in a partner. Unless I meet someone that buoys me up as I
would her, and puts in equal effort, I'd rather stay alone for now, thanks. Happy fishing!
How about a date at a park that has BBQs? I could bring meat and/or veggies to grill, you could bring a bottle of wine, and together we could have a fine picnic. If it works out, so could we, with a walk or hike after our repast. If not, well there are plenty of other fish, aren't there?