Well, I am a youth pastor and a seminary student. Jesus the Christ of the Bible is my Lord and closest relationship. He is also my source of inspiration. I would like to date ladies that have such a relationship to Him. Not only do I enjoy good discussions about religion, faith, and morality but I also enjoy joking around. When the weather is warm I like to walk in nature, canoe, fly kites, and grilling. My favorite pass time is talking with friends and reading. When the weather is cool I enjoy hanging out in coffee shops and the library. I don't enjoy hanging out in malls, shopping centers, or the like. I am open to trying different food, cultures, and clean entertainment.
I would like my first date to start at service project, a non alcoholic dance, or Christian group activity. I hope it would eventually end up with some chatting and fun in a coffee shop. For me, dates are primarily for fun and to get to know someone better. Personally, I am not comfortable with much physical touch on the first date, especially kissing. In my opinion, such things should wait until several months into a serious dating relationship. As I see it, any serious dating relationship takes time to grow. For me they are built on solid foundations of trust and healthy communication. For me, to get physical on the first few dates impedes my ability to think and communicate with a clear head and heart.