I am a widower, My kids are grown now and even though they visit often,there is something missing in my life. I have much love and affection to give.People tell me that I am a good man, kind, tender, thoughtful, intelligent and a good father. I remember birthdays, anniversaries and other important dates. I am the kind of person that sends flowers. I show affection in public, holding hands, hugs and kisses. I am old fashion in that I open doors for ladies, including car doors. Kind of quiet and shy until I get to know someone. People say, the best way to judge a persons character, is to see how they are with kids and animals. Well, kids and animals like me. They take to me very quickly.