Middle age man now raising two young boys, looking for someone who wants to enjoy life and is good hearted. I like the outdoors and casual settings. I'm not a big partier but like to let loose on occasion. Just a country boy at heart, who is not caught up in the ratrace. I'm who I am and do not pretend to be someone I'm not and would like to meet someone who thinks that is a good way to be. Wondering if there is anyone out there that feels that looks aren't the most important thing. Granted there needs to be some kind of physical attraction. But I have found that striking eyes that just shine or a smile that just lights up and comes from the heart get me a little crazy. I know that I'm not even close to making the cover of GQ. But I know that good looks does not mean anything about what's inside. I wear my heart own my sleeve. I'm not looking for a mother for the boys. They have one and I've been doing a fine job on my own. I'm looking for someone to share my life with and willing to be a part of the boys world. I have one thing to give that someone special. And that is my heart. No games here. If the spark is there and mutual I'm yours. I believe in un-dying love. I've seen it, just haven't been a part of it. (Update) Trying to figure out what to do different with my profile to get a response. Go under the knife? Working on the smoking thing. Change what I'm looking for. Give the boys to there mom. Any answers out there for me? I love the Ron White line "You can't fix stupid" I guess I'll change my heading for now.*** Another Update*** I'm new to this and granted this is a free site. But ONE thing I will do IS respond to any e-mail someone sends me. In school I was taught that there is 24 hours in a day. Not just for me but for the whole world. And through the jobs in my life I know there are a lot of rude people out there. But if someone takes a few minutes out of their day to write me an e-mail. I WILL make the time to respond.