Man who is also mensch seeks kind, companionable woman for getting to know one another in friendly, respectful way. Am myself pretty companionable, blessed as I am with appearance/physique which belies my age, as well as a good number of qualities not the least of which is my modesty! lol But seriously, from the get-go the watchwords for the kind of relationship I’d like to have would be decency, goodwill, kindness, gentleness, and a good measure of lightheartedness (but NOT frivolity). We’d see pretty quickly if this might lead to a long-term relationship, but there would certainly be no hard-selling here.
Looking forward to contacting and then meeting you, in the knowledge that we’ll both probably enjoy getting to know one another.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
A first date would be about spontaneity and lightheartedness. Nothing execeptional here, just not having our guard up to begin with. Simply two regular folks coming together for the fun and pleasure of meeting someone new, recognizing how we are both fundamentally the same and at the same time different . . . but, mostly the same! A felt sense of resonance (or absence thereof!) will tell us everything we want to know about each other, and a drink or two later, maybe even also a leisurely stroll in the park, this will confirm everything -- or lead us quickly to the nearest exit! lol