I'm looking for a woman who is confident but not full of herself. Someone who doesn't 'need' me, but wants me as I will her. I get along with almost everyone and can see the humor in any situation (although a dry sense of humour that some need to become accustomed to). I believe in love at first sight but also that sometimes it can sneak up on you slowly. I'm a gentleman by nature and upbringing, and although I can roleplay the 'bad boy' at the appropriate times, if that's what you really want in a man, then I am wrong for you. If you are intelligent, witty, know when to be serious and when to be silly then we should connect. I'm a great listener and although I'm excellent at answering direct questions about myself, I'm not good about just talking about me. You can dress me up and take me anywhere and you won't be ashamed of who you are with, whether it's to the beach, in jeans horseback riding, or in a tux (rented of course) at a formal gathering. I'm well versed on 'most' topics and seek someone who enjoys intelligent conversation as well as meaningless chatter. Go ahead...reach out and take my hand and let's walk through life together.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Although I enjoy doing almost anything with good company, on a 1st date I'd rather it not be at the movies or an event, but something where we can converse over dinner (so I can show you I know which fork to use), look into your eyes to feel your soul, listening to your thoughts, desires, goals and expectations. Yes, I will seek a kiss goodnight...but NO...I'm not that kinda guy, so don't ask on the 1st date.
P.S. My "Prefer Not to Say" response in the 'Do You Want Children' box is my way of saying that I love children if you happen to already have them and that would not deter me from being interested in you, but I don't want to ADD anymore to this planet.Yes my photos are recent. My "Prefer Not to Say" response in the 'smoking' box is because I used to smoke but only gave it up since the 1st of the year, so don't know if that qualifies me as a non-smoker yet or ever will. Finally, although I am VERY fit for my age and people continuously tell me they can't believe I am what I am, somehow or other my profile is displaying me as 10 years younger than I am and the edit screen shows no place for me to correct this error.