I don't know where to start everything people put here always sounds so cheesy. I am just going to be honest. I am a recovering addict before anything else and very active in a 12 step fellowship and that is something anyone in my life must accept or kick rocks. I am on a journey of self discovery and a path to God and am at a point where a partner would be welcome on the trek. I want someone older, at least by 10 years so if you are not 40 to 60 please don't bother. I like older gentlemen that can pamper me and give me their time and attention. I have a son who is 13 but currently lives with his grandmother down the street as my job interferes with his school transportation. I am very independent and am able to come and go as I please. I am not looking for someone to father my child, just as soon keep that seperate. I believe in a slow bonding process so if you are looking for a roll in the hay move on to the next girl please. I have a good career and am well established in the community and my church. I have a lot of friends. I am just ready for something more. For all of my dear friends not one of them will even go to the Dali Museum with me! I want to travel, have adventures! Also, very, very important... I LIKE TO LAUGH. I NEED SOMEONE THAT CAN APPRECIATE MY SARCASM, QUICK WIT, AND MAKE ME LAUGH TOO!!!! And... I have cat.
I am a firm believer in gender specific roles and fully expect a man to plan and execute a date all by himself and make every effort to please me. This is entriely possible if he is willing to put the time and effort into the bonding process I spoke of and pay attention to things I say and do and what makes me smile and therefore know how to charm me.