FIRST & FOREMOST: I AM A BBW AND INTO THE LIFESTYLE, IF YOU KNOW WHAT THESE WORDS MEAN, LET'S TALK.... ALSO 420 FRIENDLY. Just because I am a swinger DOES NOT MEAN I AM LOOKING FOR JUST SEX. I AM NOT CLINGY, AM TOO OLD TO CHASE MEN AND FOR 1-NITE STANDS.
Ok, been told i'm outgoing, fun loving, VERY BLUNT and straight forward. if u don't want the truth DON'T EVEN ASK ME!!!!!! Very loyal once u take the time to get to know me... My mom says that i have a personality that u either really really love or u cant stand me... I really don't care which cuz i feel it's your loss if u don't take the time to know me. Am looking for friends and more, I love LATIN & WHITE MEN (MY FAVORITES). Black guys are kool but I love LIGHT, BRIGHT & ALMOST WHITE ONES(you would call that bright ones...lol), VERY MUSCULAR black men are very HOT (LOVE BUFF BLACK MILITARY MEN.) THIS IS A PREFERENCE SO PLEASE DO NOT READ ANY MORE INTO IT. If you are a black man and YOU DO NOT FIT MY DESCRIPTION PLEASE DO NOT BOTHER. Looking for friends and more but NO ONE-NIGHT STANDS PLEASE, i want someone to hang out with, do dinner, conversation, go to a club, a party, a meet n greet or maybe just stay in and watch a movie and maybe play w/ on a regular basis... If we hang out on a regular basis there will be sex. If you stick around long enough I have been known to call for my own booty call.
HE MUST LOVE BBW's, be kind, generous, sweet, HOT but doesn't realize it YET... family is first too. prefer no kids but probably won't stick to that...lol also must love animals, movies, good food, reading, roller coasters, hanging out with friends and most important of all, you must want to spoil your woman and again since I am into the Lifestyle, if i find someone special then he will need to be confident in himself and in me in the fact that he's the one i love and going home w/, but i might just be bringing 3-6 people home w/ us. He can't be jealous or possessive... this is the best way i have found to cut CHEATING out of the equation... everyone should try it...
Being in the Lifestyle, I love sex, 3, 4, 5somes are good BUT I AM PICKY, there has to be chemistry....I do have lugguge full of toys,games,books,porn and other goodies. It's on rollers..lol
I do require dinner on a FIRST DATE but never expensive... Keller's Burgers is good for me on a 1st date... special occasions call for special stuff or if ur feeling like it... i do the same thing...I love movies and love to see them in the theaters.... then i get them on DVD since i have a collection w/ over 500 in it... I decorate my aunts yard FOR EVERY SINGLE HOLIDAY of the year, we were in the paper on the front page of the Metro section on Oct. 31st, 2002, on local news (same day)for 2 hrs for our Halloween and on Fox4 Good Day Dec. 23rd, 2005 all through the day about our Christmas Decorations. We take our decorating seriously and its important... to give u a hint for any given holiday there is roughly 12,000 lights in the front yard and all is done in house....for Xmas there r 23,000 lights...
I work for my aunt so we r close, also close w/ family since i live w/ Mom. Hey we pay rent. we r like roomies and i have a really kool mom, she even knows bout the swinging parties. Will say i don't mind helping GOOD friends out but my kinda helping is paying people to help. lawns and moving people and cleaning. I love the melodious sound of someone else mowing my lawn...lol oooh and i don't cook, i am the left over QUEEN... i hate to waste food as u can tell already..lol and the most important thing...lol I am the only child, grandchild and neice on both sides of the family for 39 yrs.... but friends will tell u, i spoil them too... anything else please ask away
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
IF YOU'RE NOT SERIOUS IN MEETING PLEASE DO NOT BOTHER. I RARELY GET ONLINE TO JUST CHAT. IF I AM INTERESTED IN MEETING YOU, YOU WILL GET MY CELL #.
I REQUIRE DINNER AND CONVERSATION ON ANY AND ALL FIRST DATES. I have a Swinger's yahoo group and you may attend one of my group meet n greets (ALWAYS AT A LOCAL RESTUARANT) if you just wanna meet one friday night.
IF YOU CANNOT MAKE A DATE OR MEETING PLEASE BE COURTIOUS AND CALL TO CANCEL. I WILL DO THE SAME, I PROMISE.