I have lots of ideas about a first date. There are those short and sweet meetings, like meet at a diner or coffee shop. Meet at a public place and make it brief until we know that we're interested.
One first date I met a guy that sent me a picture that was 5 years old. Mislead me right off the bat. In his picture he had hair. When we met he was completely bald on top and very closed minded, which turned me off. He wore a white undershirt and jeans.. Come on,I thought to myself, where is your shirt? I had to suffer through dinner to get out of there. I don't want to repeat that. So thats why my idea of a first meeting is short and sweet to see if their is a mutual interest. If you click, then you can plan the perfect "first date" with the special dinner and plans afterwards.