Welcome to my profile. :Thanks for stopping by :)
My profile is composed to weed out incompatibles as much as to attract a close match. WYSIWYG here.
Ultimately, I intend to meet a man I'm compatible with to co-create a happy loving life together. I own my house but want a "home" again- where the heart is,- with a special someone, My daughters are grown. I have 2 dogs and 2 cats. I'm open to relocation when I find true love.
Its got to start somewhere, so I'm checking out the pond. So far, its been a you get what you pay for situation on this FREE dating site. Lol.
I'm looking for quality, not quantity; that ONE special someone who shares common interests & goals, values, morals, & lifestyle.
The weed-out part may sound harsh, I'm only interested in communicating with men who I'm genuinely compatible with and who ultimately seek a long-term relationship,.
I'm not looking for perfection & hope you aren't either. It doesn't exist. I'm a perfectly IMperfect, fairly humble human being.
My time is valuable & so is yours. Lets Invest in fish we're truly compatible with. Maybe it's me, maybe it's not. Take 5min to read this before contacting me. If you lack the attention span to read a profile more than 5 lines, we're probably not compatible.
If we're not compatible, take care & best luck in your search! :)
Alternatively, If you read to the end and think we're compatible, drop me a line. Maybe we're that big catch we've been wanting to reel in.
OK, Here's your opportunity to wiggle off the line early ie: what I'm def. NOT looking for:
If you're mean spirited, hurt people or animals for fun, are abusive in any way, are bent on hate, revenge, make yourself feel better by ridiculing others, if you're happy about others' misfortune, if you are perpetually bored, a perpetual complainer, a Donnie-downer, or a perpetual liar, if your actions dont align with your words, if you're an addict; alcoholic, druggie, gambler or a thief, a stalker, an ex-inmate, if you're a Lazy couch potato, if you have serious mental or anger issues that require meds to control, if you're looking for a booty call or friends with benefits, if you're a player, married or in a committed relaitionship & looking for some side-action, seriously, move on! I have no interest in you- at all!!! Be really honest with yourself here. These are all deal-breakers for me.
If you're a racist, you're not for me.
Then again, if you're prejudiced against ***holes, idiots, mean people and are a fan of the DARWIN AWARDS, read on! We have at least that in common. Lol
If you're a dedicated NASCAR or golf TV-WATCHER, I'm probably not iyour girl.
I'd rather poke my eye out with a stick than sit around watching NASCAR or golf on TV. I wouldn't mind checking them out live though.
I'm ok with differing interests & am happy to go off on my own. Ultimately, the goal is to find someone to enjoy life's abundance >together with. Too many "you're on your own" interests won't work. Being connected at the hip 24/7 won't work either. Balance is key.
I won't be interested in you If you've let yourself go. I like men well groomed & healthy. I'm not talking about a health nut or exercise obsessive, which is fine too. At min, I'll need a man with basic clean, healthy living concepts & goals.
Mutual attraction & chemistry is very important! I'm more attracted to the qualities of an individual ie: core VALUES, INTEGRITY, etc. more so than outer casings. Still, there must be mutual chemistry. If you're a super handsome jerk, you're just a jerk to me. If your semi-attractive with a big heart & lots of integrity, you're a huge turn-on. If you're uber bushy & look like you just came out of a cave- I'm def not interested. :P
- End neg aspect of profile. Yay! :)
I'm looking for an intelligent, attractive man, who's a good communicator, goal-oriented and shares a similar lifestyle.
Who am I? I'm a self-confident, reasonably attractive, goal-oriented, educated, cultured, adventurous world traveler - loyal to the bone.
A loving, nurturing home & hearth is my core. From this rock-solid foundation, life radiates into- all things are possible!
Loyalty & trust are valuable traits that IMO are earned. I'm not a flock-follower nor am I loyal because it's demanded. I'm an independent thinker.
I'm pretty laid back most of the time. I'm an optimist firmly grounded in reality. It's not all sunshine & rainbows. It's not all black clouds & dreary. Life, in all its glory & heartbreak, is what it is. I bend- I don't break.
I'm politically independent & fiscally midline.
I'm tactile & sensual.
I respect peoples boundaries, & am courteous. I expect the same in return.
I love life & learning. I can't remember the last time I was bored. .
I'm spiritual, not religious,I'm non-judgmental re: others' beliefs as long as they aren't shoved down my throat or infringe on basic human rights.
I'm eclectic & enjoy a wide variety of music, activities and interests.
I enjoy nature, the great outdoors, high-end resorts & palapas on the beach. I love traveling, hiking, kayaking, going on big & small adventures, fun in the sun, or checking out the arts: museums, art galleries, concerts, concertos, symphonies, theater,the ballet & yes, even opera. I like antique-ing in moderation, home improvement, DIY, gardening for food, herbs & medicine, creativity, painiting, drawing, reading, occasional movies, nice dinners, spontaneity, snuggling, kissing, love-making & helping others. Basically, I love life!
I'm not likely to sleep in a bag, on the ground, in a tent. If that's who you're looking for, I'm not your girl. However, I've roughed it & liked it. Depends on the situation. I AM up for occasionally camping if I can sleep in a hammock, on an airbed, in a boat cabin or an RV. Im much more into Comf & Cush these days.
I'm a girly-girl who loves to dress to the nines for an evening out, or down for adventures, and also hanging out in "comfies". I camelian very well
I enjoy occasional lazy days, indulgences in ethnic & gourmet foods, decadent desserts, and take out- in moderation.
I generally enjoy healthy living. I'm an excellent cook but don't necessarily want to 24/7/365. Def not a Mon meatloaf, Tues burgers, We'd pasta person. Too boring! I like variety & uber flavorful.
Something that gives us the opportunity to get to know each another well enough to see if we want to spend more time together.
Hopefully, we'll laugh & enjoy each others company, whether or not we want a second date.
If we go on a second or third date; Something adventurous, active, cultural, interesting, enlightening, spontaneous or silly. :)
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