How can I tell you about me? It's never what you think. Dare I say it I'm a pretty normal guy. I love music: listening, playing, and writing. I enjoy the outdoors(camping, sailing, hiking) but sometimes I just need to make sure my couch doesn't run away. I keep myself fit, but I'm certainly softer than I used to be. I like to cook things I've never made before or just make something up. I'll try just about anything once but I learn my lessons fast. I've had a few long term relationships and I don't want to get serious unless it's right. But I'm a bit of a romantic and don't tend to hold back as well as maybe I should. I try to be as honest as possible, even if it gets me in trouble (if you ask me how your dress looks), but it goes both ways (I'm not afraid to give a compliment). I can be opinionated but I'm always open to new perspectives and have no problem changing to a better point of view. I care deeply about my friends and family, and that definately includes my cat. Hurting them is one of the only things that can make me angry.
What I can tell you is what I'd like to find. Infer what you may:
Someone with bright eyes, a warm laugh, and an amazing Smile(dimples are appreciated). She's got to be quick on her toes, both mentally and physically. She must be able to take care of herself. Someone who is aware of who she is. Someone not afraid to take a chance and enjoy herself. She MUST be able to take a joke. But she also has to know how to cuddle.
That smile tho.. It's really what seals the deal.
Does it really matter where? What I would do is explore You. It's all about learning and understanding. Charisma and Compatibility. Someplace we can talk, but not someplace that confines us. Some place that can inspire conversation, but leaves the evening open for opportunity.
What I won't do for a first date: Take you into the forest and kidnap you; Take you out to my favorite place and ignore you; Talk about myself for hours; Hang on your every word like a lost puppy; Get drunk and make a fool of myself.
The point is to experience each other.