Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
1) Phone call, chat, email.
2) Photo exchange, see above.
3) Dinner in a casual place.
4) Pool and beverages.
5) Rinse, repeat.
*Some tact and class. Thinking that jumping on the messenger service and looking for some hoochie and making sexual innuendos, just promotes your lack of intelligence.
The ability to leave the computer off for a day would be a good start. Be able to string a sentence together and engage in witty banter.
Like leaving the house and reading books on a regular basis. Enjoy diverse foods and don't be afraid of spiders. Music is everything from Rock-a-billy, Metal, Industrial, Punk, Electronica and Old School Rap.
Be passionate and secure.
Be an adult.