Alex_Taylor20
Age: 40
Long term
Bagherra: Bohemian for all seasons seeks ...peers.
About
Non-smoker with Athletic body type
City
Sydney & canberra, New South Wales
Details
47 year old Man, 5' 8" (173cm), Buddhist
Ethnicity
Caucasian Leo with Brown hair
Intent
Bagherra Wants to date but nothing serious
Education
Graduate degree
Personality
Poet
Profession
Actor, director, singer, student.







I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Yes
Marital Status Widowed Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? N/A Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 4 years
Second Language Chinese  


Interests

About Me
Me:: Well educated, read & travelled / Innovative / Romantic / Fair Minded / Adventurer. Somewhat starving Artist / Free Thinking / Creative / Intellectual / Strong Willed / Yogi. Humanistic / White Collar Hippie / Greenish Left Libertarian Professional. Coffee Snob / Performing Artist AND Poet.

Ok, there's a lot under the surface but I'm always a gentleman & most importantly - I'm Interested in more than one thing at a time - whatever the day will bring - all at the same time.

Are you looking for someone who is interesting yet interested?
Looking for someone sensual but who will talk to you.
An original, self made man who knows his own mind & has searched his own soul?

I like people, I truly love women & I like sharing the moment with them whilst trying to be an example of the changes I would like to see in the world. I'm always open to a another's strengths & their needs whilst never ignoring mine.

Looking for
I'm open to all sorts of possibilities with the right person.

I can't describe that person today any more than you sight unseen can describe me. Nor will I detail what relationship type I'll consider before I even meet a person because the nature of what I want will change on contact with another person. I can & will be honest about who I am.

Can't say I get the POF limited choices or the concept above - "but nothing serious." Let me be clear, I'm looking for fellow travellers. People who like being around me - the agenda & the time is simply secondary & something I don't think I can really know until I've spent time with a person.
Most of the time, I tend to the promiscuous but never, ever superficial. If something more serious is on the agenda & the chemistry is right then I'm truly up for that. If something more immediate, or less enduring is more relevant why not?
I'm going to be honest with strangers & even more so with people I'm close to. Trust, loyalty - this is what counts.

I'll share strengths & interests with who express their appetites. I'll respect the space & make room for those who don't. Honestly, I love intimacy & I love connections & I've mentioned how I feel about women. You can't force the nature of a connection any more than you can force the connection.
Am really not sure if you can chose a category of interaction in advance. Given that my preference for what to do & where to aim is going to depend on how I get on with you, I'm not going to pre-judge or insist on this or that interaction. Wouldn't you want to meet someone before starting to determine how you wanted to relate to them... I want to meet people & give them my best on the day. If the story that waits to be written is an ongoing one, lets see what we can do.

So what do you want? When a woman is serious or easy going - if she is intense or careful - if she is understanding or exotic with me; then naturally I'll tend to respond accordingly. I'm looking for women who wants to date but I'm also looking for women who want to connect, to explore, befriend, meet, kiss, talk, make music, develop, touch, dress up, improve the breed or contemplate life's possibilities with a truly loyal man who is above all - an individual. There are some special people in my life & our future may well be poly. There is room for a developing family there.
There is room today though, for the best of what we can find. I would really love to find someone who can fit into that, ideally someone who also loves women & wants kids but I don't want someone who can't be themselves.

Some of my adjectives: Friendly, verbal++, passionate, honourable, bit of a geek but nothing I would boast of, open minded, thoughtful, creative, free thinking, emotionally sane, intimate by nature, libidinous, loving & tastefully kinky. I tend to the assertive but am probably a bit safer than ┬┤the average guy'. There is a darker side - from which my creativity stems - available on request. A man who is becoming at least somewhat open to polyamory. It is natural that we have different agenda at different times with different people. Its about giving your best: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory
Personally, I live more in the moment than I do in a specific place. Geographically, I'm based in Sydney & also in Canberra & sometimes other places. That can & does change. Wherever I am 'living' it is for me about being good to 'my people', being the best man, the best person I can be. This means (depending on the day), actually being the change I want to see in the world, although that will reflect what is happening in my life. I am not confronted by differences, nor troubled by emancipated, independent, smart or strong woman. I accept those who look for acceptance, reinforcement or a strong will & direction. Nor do I believe you must be any of these things, or anything else to be accepted by others. Again, its the quality of what you are & do that engages my interest.
In the past & possibly in the future I've been a successful IT geek, a teacher, a natural therapist, a singer, an actor & a security suit. I speak English, a fair amount of Mandarin & a little Japanese. The life so far has been full of change & adventure, there has been love & I seek the company of loving & lovable people wherever I go.
Not really sure where it is taking me but I am walking through the doors that open. Sometimes, I think about settling down. The poly lifestyle appeals to me more & more but I from the beginning to the end its all about loyalty & depth in all my connections, even if they are brief. I feel no great pressure to live 'a quiet life' or go out & party-party. Its about being there for the people who are there for me.
My friends would & have described me as a sensitive idealist, emotionally sane, a faithful friend, a rule chooser rather than a rule breaker. An enduring SOH who can be childlike without being childish. Recently I'm told that I seem wise which means I must be getting older - gosh!. Clearly a bohemian - a man who enjoys a fine but inexpensive lifestyle & a yes - a great lover of women. Dressing up or dressing down - my garb & my mind - depending on mood, moment & imagination. I am quite open to tasteful kink & whatever really connects us, but I have no wish to take anyone where they do not want to go.

I do avoid & dislike bigotry: What you believe, what you feel, is of value & interest to me, just as long as it does not take others where they don't want to go.
I love good food, good coffee, long conversations & free thinking friendly people. I can enjoy a gym & yoga - they've been a significant part of my life but so have other things. I have a strong sexual appetite but often am possessed of the taste of a eclectic gourmet. If you are thinking of contacting me I can promise that you are unlikely to be bored. I enjoy travelling & am not scared of commitment (to the

First Date
Minimise the pressure for a start.

Conversation & getting to know other people more than superficially: This is very important to me but keep it easy, make it comfortable. Sit - walk - play... but with the accent on listening & letting the other know the things that are important.

What we do is secondary to the rapport.

For the shorter term, I'm looking for sensitive or positive people who understand the intimacy, even the intensity of sharing the moment. I am not as concerned with your background or issues, height, weight, nearly as much as what you are willing to share. Please do not be concerned with your age or weight. I appreciate a womans face & figure & style but my interests do not stop at the superficial. If I ever judge, its your character that will engage my interest.

I do however, much prefer the company of non-smokers.

Perhaps what I'm saying is please don't be distracted by POF's idea of how people should present or categorise each other. If you're up for it than I'm an all of the above / below kind of guy.

For the longer term please read the above carefully. Thanks for reading this far too. :)


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