I have been divorced for 4yrs. In those 4yrs. I did alot of soul searching(everyday thing)of who I was and what I wanted out of life as a single person. I like myself, I enjoy laughter, talks(not to deep),listening,hugging, biking,whitewater rafting walks,beach,camping,horseback riding. I am a window shopper,not a spender. There are so many things I missed out in my life that I want to discover and learn. Like skiing, rollerbladding(sp),scuba. I do smoke and i am trying very hard to quit. I do not smoke around people who do not. 2 of my pet peeves is littering and talking on a cell phone while driving. I do not deal with people who are rascist,people who have a drinking problem and alot of past baggage. Let go of the suitcase.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
It really depends on the person. A walk would be nice so we could talk and explore what is around us and each other, along w/ a cup a coffee. Restaurants on a 1st date, I find arkward. I want to have fun in my life and I would like a male to do things with. Is that so bad to ask?