Personal growth and evolution come not from ones life experiences,
But instead, are the effects of how one chooses to respond to them.
022112 Another Update: I always use my turn signals and look before changing lanes.
A Personal Commentary: More often then not; There is more than one way to "skin the proverbial cat."
If you require that another perform such a skinning "only" in a manner of your own preference or direction,
We will have little to no chance of forming a lasting personal interaction. Come on! Think SPICE !
To get a handle on where I'm coming from, check out: perceivingreality dot com.
PS, My apologies to the sensitivities of any offended AR folks!
None of the above has anything to do with the disappearance of my dear cat Oce'.
No animals were abused or harmed during the making of this UPDATE.
I'm gonna' skip past the walks in parks, toes on beaches, dinners with candle-light, playing with puppies, kittens and little kids 'cause anybody who's not into those goodies is, well... I'll just say, "Missing the boat."
I enjoy smiling, touching and talking (deep) and interaction. I like having fun, dancing my butt off and new life discoveries had with open minded people. I understand that life is more about its aware creation followed by its discovery and the fullness of its experience.... I'm in great shape and am fully functional...
I have no desire to own anyone or am I willing to give up ownership of myself to another. That is not to say I'm not looking for or willing to engage a committed and monogamous relationship because, I am. To put it a different way; I believe each person should put their self first. After all; How else could "that person" continue to 'be there' for another. Note: Of course; Rescuing a child from the path of an oncoming train "might be" a different thing, indeed....
I never got attached to sports but don't mind playing or watching a game if an interesting other person would like me to join them. It's fun to watch women get all fired up over sports. I'm more inclined to take off in my Camaro (with the "T" tops off), on my motorcycle (sorry Harley gurls, it's a Kawa) and go somewhere new or old and find some cool people, or even a crowd, to mingle with. Or maybe go rent a plane or (Hey! A new thought!) a boat. Yeah! I do like machines! Wanna' ride with me? Oh Yeah! And let's Dance... In general, I'm easy to please when it comes down to fun things to do and I'm Very Open!
I like to garden... I grow vegi's, herbs and flowers in a garden I constructed on my roof. It's a very relaxing space to hang out in on a warm day or night. I've been known to pitch a tent out there for a sleep over too. At night, with its nice lighting and music, it can also be a very romantic place.
Here are some things I get exited about when it comes to a woman:
Her APPEARANCE: Tall (so we can do more things while standing up), Shapely (so I can stroke and caress your figure), Longer Darker Hair (so I can hide in it), Attention Grabbing Eyes (for me to get lost in.), Long Fingers (not a reference to nails), Olive or Lighter Colored Skin (to enjoy the contrasts of our different ethnic interactings), Lips Configured For Kissing (umm... I like kissing.) and a Face That Smiles By Default (to help light up the world.)
Her PERSONALITY: Open Minded, Spiritually Aware & Seeking, Forward & Positive Thinking, Internally Motivated & Driven, Growth Oriented, At Peace with Self and Seeking A Loving Man for Companionship & a Long Term Deep and Meaningful Interaction.
Her INTERESTS: If you are also into any kind of Technology; You could make me your slave... You wouldn't want to though, unless you're thinking "Love Slave." ;)
Not Your Average ANYTHING!!
So Much More Than You Might Imagine...
GOOD LUCK Everybody !!!