As the title says, looking for the right fit in my life. The unfortunate part is that I'm not sure how to describe the perfect fit for me.
I have learned what I don't want. If you are willing to cheat on your partner and sneak around behind their back, we won't fit at all. That much I do know!
A first date.... Well, I don't have in mind a "perfect" first date...
I'd rather play it by ear, and see where the evening takes us.
(And yes, I do sometimes make plans, even when I don't share them up front.)