Just found out that my kids don't want me as their dad anymore. :(
Sadly, ah hell, I'm torn up at the news! So that means that I'm not very good company, and haven't been able to stop crying all day. So I'm not very good company right now, and not sure that I'm that great a catch either.
Maybe I'm just down, but thought that fair warning was due, as grumpy and weepy are for dwarfs, not for dates. ;)
A first date.... Well, I don't have in mind a "perfect" first date...
I'd rather play it by ear, and see where the evening takes us.
(And yes, I do sometimes make plans, even when I don't share them up front.)