“the only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars.”
? Jack Kerouac, On the Road
“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly”.
Ok guys, I am not MS Perfect by any means and if that is what you are searching for then byebye!! . I have my flaws like anyone else but I also have many attributes.But if you found my flat 2D image attractive then that's just your very first impression of me. You may judge me based solely on appearances or you may be deeper and see beyond the lifeless image and wish to peel away the layers and investigate the inner qualities of me further. If so then I do hope the attraction may go further as that is the basis if a great friendship. Anyone can ramble on about how many qualities they possess but I do wish that you may simply appreciate the 'inner beauty' within me... I am a genuine open soul who possesses a caring strong feminine, confident, determined and responsible air of sensuality. I have charm, warmth, elegance and a gentle free spirited nature and love to smile and giggle. I am very practical and creative minded, warm hearted and down to earth and have my feet on the ground. I do find meaning in most things; I can pick out a shiny single pebble lying on the pristine white sands just waiting to be picked up by me...and then it transforms into a crystal pendant that I cherish forever. Or when I lie back on a warm summer's day and look up at the skies and on screwing up my eyes I perceive an array of visual images deep within the fluffy white clouds and just lose myself in the moment. Or when I am pre-occupied trying to get somewhere and in a hurry and I stumble upon a stranger's bag in the supermarket isle and we exchange a knowing look that made me stop in my tracks and I just knew that we exchanged that knowing 'connection' forever in that moment. I feel 'one' with nature and very much get inspiration from the intricate detail within nature. I am highly observant and feel there is a purpose and design to everything. I enjoy painting and photography and I am very expressive and there's nothing like brushing large strokes on a canvas and letting your mind flow. It's pure freedom. I am attracted to a man who is passionate natured, has drive and determination and possesses a talent! Any talent!!
Eyes are the window to the soul and I am a very visual person and I see beauty and meaning in everything. I enjoy simple things and appreciate an integrity within nature, food, people and places. Fakery & falseness and things which try and be something they are not repel me. I appreciate interesting people who believe there is more to life than football, sex and money. I am more attracted to men with passion, a curious mind, drive and determination and who genuinely strive to be the best in all they do.
I am open to new experiences and to me being fulfilled is living in the here and now and not having any expectations. I hate planning anything and have a very spontaneous character. Being a very expressive person I guess I can be fairly opinionated and like to speak my mind. Discussing anything and everything with a flow from one thing to the next is my kind of evening but I also like fun and laughter and not being too serious.
My competitive nature makes me enjoy challenges and I do like to push myself in many ways. I would consider myself to possess many attributes and qualities of character. I am hardworking, determined, kind hearted, genuine and fun loving, I can be devilishly childish at times but it keeps my young at heart. I exude confidence and am comfortable in my own skin and feel just as sexy in a thick cuddly woolen jumper than a tight little black number. I don't need to be constantly reassured and am secure and self assured and guess I seek that in a friend or lover.
Some may say that blondes are bimbos but I would consider myself fairly smart, level headed but don't suffer fools easily. Call me Miss savvy as I do have a good head on my shoulders. Although I love nice quality things I am certainly NOT materialistic in any way. Yes, being wined and dined is nice but not a priority and I am no princess who is after the knight who can adorn me with jewels. Simple pleasures are more attractive and.. a candlelit home cooked meal cooked with your own hands means more to me than a fancy restaurant. You don't need to try so hard ..I like men who simply be themselves and don't do things to impress but do things because they want to and it comes naturally. Little things and gestures mean more to me than lavish occasions.
I love spontaneity and live in the spur-of -the-moment. Although I am also very laid back I like to unwind and sitting in after a long tiring day with a good dvd,some wine and good conversation and company is nice and chilled and equally as good as spontaneous adventure. I am not into adrenalin rushes or wish to be constant in the fast lane but do like the comfort of my own home and am looking for someone who likes to chill but in contrast, also likes to get up and go. Couch potatoes need not apply. I also like men who are outdoorsy and don't spend every minute down the gym.
Guys, I may not laugh at your jokes, but I do like sarcasm at times and dry humour..and if you tease me a little I may just bite! I can be playful (yeah I own an xbox,wii, scrabble, cards etc and do occasionally play...but I like winning and I am very competitive so beware). Fun for me is spontaneous laughter, biting remarks, witty banter and not always being so serious. Laughter is an aphrodisiac for me and if you are too serious then you will not be for me. If you can be unpretentious and just try anything once then you may be my cuppa tea!
I am a sensual feminine girl who enjoys intimacy and romance and I do embrace my femininity. Sweatpants do have their role but only for yoga...I like to be noticed when walking into a room and certainly don't like to be part of the furniture and blend into the background. I like a man to be a man and possess a charisma that attracts my eyes over to you. I am trustworthy and very open and am seeking the same in a friend or lover. I am supportive but not suffocating and I do like my own space..but equally I do like a man to sweep me off my feet and show interest or I lose interest!
I am comfortable in my own skin and don't feel out of my depth traveling on my own and have am very independent minded...I taught design for 15 years and now I am a mum to a beautiful little girl...you need to be understanding that my daughter always comes first!
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Quiet drink in country pub...getting to know each other or a nice walk along the beach.