Words of wisdom huh...life is very short and there's no time for fussing and fighting my friend..just act!
I find meaning in most things; a single pebble can be standing out on the pristine white sands like a sore thumb waiting to be picked up by me...and then it transforms into a crystal knecklace that I cherish forever. Or when I lie back on a warm summer's day and look up at the skies and on screwing up my eyes I perceive visual images deep within the fluffy white clouds and just lose myself in the moment. Or when I am pre-occupied trying to get somewhere and in a hurry and I stumble and trip upon a stranger's bag in the supermarkert isle and we exchange a knowing look that made me stop in my tracks and I just knew we had that 'connection' for that moment. Eyes are the window to the soul and I am a very visual person and I see beauty and meaning in everything. I enjoy simple things and appreciate an integrity within nature, food, people and places. Fakery & falseness and things which try and be something they are not repel me.
I am open to new experiences and to me being fulfilled is living in the here and now and not having any expectations. I hate planning anything and have a very spontaneous character. Being a very expressive person I guess I can be fairly opinionated and like to speak my mind and enjoy discussing anything and everything. My competitive nature makes me enjoy challenges and I do like to push myself in many ways. I would consider myself to possess many attributes and qualities of character. Being very down to earth, genuine and fun loving, I can be devilishly childish at times but it keeps my young at heart. I exude confidence and am comfortable in my own skin and feel just as sexy in a thick cuddly woolen jumper than a tight little black number. I don't need to be constantly reassured and am secure and self assured and guess I seek that in a friend or lover.
Some may say that blondes are bimbos and have more fun but although the bimbo act can be a novelty at times, I would consider myself fairly smart, level headed but don't suffer fools easily. Call me Miss savvy as I do have a good head on my shoulders. Although I love nice quality things I am certainly NOT materialistic in any way. Yes, I may have been wined and dined and treated to nice things but it's not a priority and I am no princess who is after the knight who can adorn me with jewels. Simple pleasures are more attractive and.. a candlelit home cooked meal cooked with your own hands means more to me than a fancy restaurant. You don't need to try so hard ..I like men who simply be themselves and don't do things to impress but do things because they want to and it comes naturally. Little things and gestures mean more to me than lavish occasions.
I love spontaneity and live in the spur-of -the-moment. Although I am also very laid back I like to unwind and sitting in on a friday eve after a long tiring day with a good dvd,some wine and good conversation and company is nice and chilled and equally as good as spontaneous adventure. I am not into adrenalin rushes or wish to be constant in the fast lane but do like the comfort of my own home and am looking for someone who likes to chill but in contrast, also likes to get up and go. Couch potatoes need not apply.
Guys, I may not laugh at your jokes, but I do like sarcasm at times and dry humour..and if you tease me a little I may just bite! I can be playful (yeah I own an xbox,wii, scrabble, cards etc and do occasionally play...but I like winning and I am very competitive so beware). Fun for me is spontaneous laughter, biting remarks, witty banter and not always being so serious. Laughter is an aphrodisiac for me and if you are too serious then you will not be for me. If you can be unpretentious and just try anything once then you may be my cuppa tea!
I am a sensual feminine girl who enjoys intimacy and romance and I do embrace my femininity. Sweatpants do have their role but only for yoga...I like to be noticed when walking into a room and certainly don't like to be part of the furniture and blend into the background. I like a man to be a man and possess a charisma that attracts my eyes over to you. I am trustworthy and very open and am seeking the same in a friend or lover. If you have to have 100 texts from past girlfriends daily then I am not your gal..I am supportive but not suffocating and I do like my own space..
I am comfortable in my own skin and don't feel out of my depth traveling on my own and have am very independent minded...Although I studied Art & Design at Uni I am no arty farty snob but do appreciate creativity, galleries, theatres, museums etc but I don't like bull#### art where critics have written a whole lot of nonsense about a squiggle on a canvas. Photography is a hobby of mine and when I have time I like to paint and write poetry but I really feel most alive when I am amidst nature (edge of a clifftop, up mountain peak, savoring smells in a street market, snorkeling on azure blue waters, and looking up at the light shining through the woodland treetops).I believe in the creative myriad of the senses, symmetry, intricacy, emotions, experiences, adventures and grasp every moment with open arms as the clock is ticking and I am very aware that I am a mortal creature.
I guess I am looking to share in a companionship with someone who shares similar values...and just simply want to spend some quality time with someone's company I enjoy. Friendship, shared values and chemistry are important aspects I cherish.
To sum it all up I guess that I am fun loving, sensual, vivacious, educated, creative, spontaneous, well travelled and honest and appreciate simple things in life. Money and fancy lifestyles are not for me but I do enjoy nice quality things. I very much believe in honesty and genuine people...and do not play games. I adore genuine smiles and sparkly eyes, true gentlemen, classics, passion, design, chillies, sea, mountain peaks, spices,azure blue,waterfalls,psychological thrillers,suspense,surprises,adventure,great outdoors, snorkelling, driving country roads, coastal walks, fluffy dogs, warm fires,winning, sancerre,integrity, kissing, art,photography,seabass, pino grigio, romance, stars, moon, pink, mystery, crystals, eyes, words, scented baths, candlelight, roasts, dancing, and the list goes on and on so if you 'connect' in any way then get in touch.
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