nice dinner somewhere not to loud, or a pinic out in the middle of nowhere, or in a park,grill out.or movie (if watching one at home, i want to see and hear you, theaters are to loud and dark) maybe go to a baseball game. take a walk around town to talk and learn more about the person i am with. just have fun! we can do whatever we both want,just be ourselves and have fun. do something together for the first time that neither of us have done before, but wanted to do or do something that we havent done in a long time. the main thing is to have fun with each other and enjoy each others company. we could just use our imagination, make a memory of being with that special person instead of the resturant or the money you spent, i beleive this not only for a first date, but in a relationship also.