Well I'm pretty sure that nobody on these sites does anything more than look at the pictures. But if you are reading - I'd like to think of myself I'm a rare gem waiting to be found - definitely not another pretty face, often analytical, but a genuine man underneath it all. I'm not perfect (and neither are you) and I'm cognizant of my flaws as a person. Definitely down to earth and I also tend to be a clown and like to have fun and make other people smile. I'm somewhat of an old school Italian American from the east coast living here in Southern Cali. So many faces have come and gone since I've lived here and it would be nice to meet a woman who's REAL and into REAL things to spend my free time with. I enjoy reading, writing compulsively, sports, I'm a hardcore movie fan, I like to cook and grill, like to people watch, enjoy being outdoors and exploring southern cali. I can be a deep thinker and I enjoy good conversation. I'll always have the East Coast mentality: high energy, confident, ambitious, versatile, sarcastic, blunt, and yet 100% GENUINE - also believe it or not I do have real feelings and emotions.
As far as what I'm 'looking' for...I don't have expectations with this online thing. I can tell you that style is nice, but substance is more important - quality over quantity, etc. I just want to meet a woman who is legitimately interested in getting to know me and be a friend to me. I have a big heart and always put my woman first and it would be nice to find somebody that thinks the same way. I prefer women who are loving, educated, low maintenance, sensual, mature, honest, versatile, and mysterious in their own way. I'm not a big fan of materialistic, shallow women and don't care if you do your shopping at Saks 5th avenue or Walmart. But after all this is southern cali and I understand the high standard of living and don't mind the whole 'girly girl' thing, but at some point there has to be more to keep me interested. What it really boils down to is being on the same page: a hopeless romantic who can understand the myriad of depths and dimensions of me and vice versa. She should be an independent thinker who's not going to allow her friends or family to influence her decisions in a relationship. I would prefer a woman who's independent, has no children, drama or baggage please. Somebody who's a young professional like me and not into the childish headgames - Save the drama for your mama and lets be happy together!
If you think I might be a good match for you than don't be shy and drop me a line