| About | Non-Smoker with Thin body type | City | Windsor Ontario | |
| Details | 43 year old Woman, 5' 2" (157 cm), Non-Religious | Ethnicity | Caucasian Capricorn with Mixed Color hair |
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| I am Seeking a | Man | For | Friends | |
| Needs Test | View her relationship needs | Chemistry | View her chemistry results | |
| Do you drink? | Socially | Do you want children? | Prefer Not To Say | |
| Marital Status | Single | Do you do drugs? | No | |
| Pets | Cat | Eye Color | Blue | |
| Profession | Nunya Business | Do you have children? | Yes | |
| Education | High School | Do you have a car? | N/A |
Relationship
Intent The_Wallflower is looking for a relationship. |
Relationship History The longest relationship The_Wallflower has been in was over 10 years long. |
Interests
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About Me
I'm basically just here hoping to find that *certain somebody* that would like to take the time to get to know me a bit better and become friends first. I'm not really interested in meeting everyone that sends me an e-mail. There has to be some sort of connection and attraction for me to even bother. I'm not into rushing things. My Motto is: All good things take time so take the time to see if it's good! :) I'm not able to invest all of my time and energy into a very serious relationship at the moment but that doesn't mean that I'm not interested in a friendship that SLOWLY develops into something more serious and long term. I am ultimately looking for adult companionship for now (not a "hook up" please) and would love some company if you are a patient, decent person with integrity. You must be able to accept the fact that I have my kids 24/7. The brutal reality is that I do not get much time away from them. They do not have paternal visitation unfortunately. I love my kids dearly but need to balance my time between them and another adult for sanity sake if nothing else. I'm okay with being single for as long as it takes but the boredom and monotony does overwhelm me sometimes. Hopefully this clarifies my situation. ;)
I am a 43 year old mother of two children ages 9 and 6, I am 5' 2", and 105(ish) lbs. with blond naturally curly hair and blue eyes. I'm patiently waiting for a man that I can carry on a decent conversation with. The mental connection is very important to me. Communication is key. Losing track of space and time. When you are with the RIGHT person ... it just happens without any effort. I personally believe relationships are stronger and last much longer when they are friendship based. Friends with a sincere respect for one another as opposed to two people who's dating choices are based on pure attraction. I can't say I have a clear cut "type" that I'm attracted to but due to personal taste and the fact that I'm not a heavy person myself, I tend to be attracted to men that have an average, athletic, or thin build. Attraction is a natural thing that we can't change or control to be politically correct. So I'm very sorry if this offends anyone. I try to take care of my body and prefer a man that does the same. :) That is all!
Everyone has their own ideals and admire different qualities in different people. Each person I meet brings out a different part of my personality. So I find it very difficult to explain what I am really like or what I may be like with you. None of us see ourselves in the same way as others see us anyway. You will form your own opinion of me regardless of what I type here and you are entitled to do so. I am me ... like it or not.
I just want to let you know that I have Rheumatoid Arthritis. Had it since age 16 and YES .. it IS visible. I am honest enough to put that out there for you to scrutinize. Everybody has a flaw of some sort but since mine just happens to be a noticeable part of my appearance, I feel that I should let it be known so that you can decide if it's something you can handle or accept. You can only tell by looking at my hands and feet. I do eat right and take good care of myself and I truly believe that I'm in better shape and look younger than most women my age. You'll either accept it or you won't. I will wait to find the right person to whom this does not matter. My life isn't easy but it does go on either way - with or without you. :)
I am a 43 year old mother of two children ages 9 and 6, I am 5' 2", and 105(ish) lbs. with blond naturally curly hair and blue eyes. I'm patiently waiting for a man that I can carry on a decent conversation with. The mental connection is very important to me. Communication is key. Losing track of space and time. When you are with the RIGHT person ... it just happens without any effort. I personally believe relationships are stronger and last much longer when they are friendship based. Friends with a sincere respect for one another as opposed to two people who's dating choices are based on pure attraction. I can't say I have a clear cut "type" that I'm attracted to but due to personal taste and the fact that I'm not a heavy person myself, I tend to be attracted to men that have an average, athletic, or thin build. Attraction is a natural thing that we can't change or control to be politically correct. So I'm very sorry if this offends anyone. I try to take care of my body and prefer a man that does the same. :) That is all!
Everyone has their own ideals and admire different qualities in different people. Each person I meet brings out a different part of my personality. So I find it very difficult to explain what I am really like or what I may be like with you. None of us see ourselves in the same way as others see us anyway. You will form your own opinion of me regardless of what I type here and you are entitled to do so. I am me ... like it or not.
I just want to let you know that I have Rheumatoid Arthritis. Had it since age 16 and YES .. it IS visible. I am honest enough to put that out there for you to scrutinize. Everybody has a flaw of some sort but since mine just happens to be a noticeable part of my appearance, I feel that I should let it be known so that you can decide if it's something you can handle or accept. You can only tell by looking at my hands and feet. I do eat right and take good care of myself and I truly believe that I'm in better shape and look younger than most women my age. You'll either accept it or you won't. I will wait to find the right person to whom this does not matter. My life isn't easy but it does go on either way - with or without you. :)
First Date
Chemistry is always a factor and the written word can be interpreted any way the reader so chooses to interpret it. So a face to face meeting at some point will make or break it.
To be honest ... I feel uncomfortable eating on a first date. Maybe just appetizers and a drink. No sense in wasting a good meal. Sometimes it's just easier to nibble than to pig out in front of a complete stranger.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFcF4B3AFFI&feature=related
To be honest ... I feel uncomfortable eating on a first date. Maybe just appetizers and a drink. No sense in wasting a good meal. Sometimes it's just easier to nibble than to pig out in front of a complete stranger.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFcF4B3AFFI&feature=related
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