I am a 28 yr old bisexual African American woman from Scottsdale. I graduated college last year studying for Network Admin and hopefully move into web design. I am back in school again getting a BS in Web Design at UoP. I enjoy good conversations, meeting people from different walks of life, going out whether to parties or clubs. I enjoy drinking (socially), smoking hookahs, loves to laugh, video games, and hanging out with friends. I'm very open-minded, accepting, and highly opinionated. I am not into labels nor do I like using them to describe my sexuality, I think for myself and do not listen to the bias media.
I'm looking for someone who is down to earth and is into the green community like I am. I want a woman who knows what she wants, someone who can make me laugh, educated, open-minded, and goal-orientated. I'd love to meet a woman who is artistic, creative, fun, and has a geeky side. I am open to meeting anybody as long as you are a nice person! :)
I desire a secure, energetic, outgoing, fun-loving woman who isn't into drama, wants a loyal friendship, and possible relationship in the future; someone who wouldn't mind doing interracial dating. Sorry, but I strictly do interracial dating, I don't make exceptions to date within my race. I do have a fiance that I have been with for almost 6 yrs now, but, I am just looking to make new friends.
My fiance knows about my sexuality and is very accepting of it, however, he will NOT be part of my relationships with women. In the future, I just want a woman who will be with me exclusively and is single. I have a different way of looking at life. I am NOT into the whole labels or stereotypes, it makes absolutely no sense to me whatsoever. I'm a grown up and I think for myself, I believe people need to think for themselves and do what is right for their sake and happiness. I became at a point of my life, where I didn't need society/media telling me what to do, how to live, how to love, what is right or wrong, etc.
I am getting too old to listen to stereotypes/labels and what the media says about life, people, and relationships. You would say I am a rebel, but I think outside of the box. It is bad enough nobody isn't interested in anyone these days because of silly lying stereotypes/labels. I like those who can actually think for themselves and think outside of the box, research life/people/relationships/happiness, etc.
I don't like being around people who enjoy stereotypes/labels - they don't fit anybody anyway. Honestly, I do not like the word bisexual it has too many assumptions behind it. Just like any word out there, most of them have too many bad connotations behind them without anything positive to go with it. I'd like to see the word have a different meaning that has something meaningful and loving behind it not something that screams "hey look, lets have a 3sum!" or whatever anybody can think of - which is retarded. I am not looking to meet someone who listens to the media on societal standpoints as to what fits for people and what doesn't. I have my own way of thinking and so should everyone else out there.
It would be great if you do not have any children as I do not have any myself. I'm frustrated by mind games, teasing, lying, cheating, and indecisiveness. I'm looking for a woman who is active going to bars/dancing and parties, meeting new people as well. I am the kind of person who will befriend anyone if they are interesting and nice. I want someone who lives in the Maricopa county area and is 18-35 yrs of age. I am always open to chat, so don't be shy and just send me an email!
email me on facebook.com/ladysakura23
Starting out with friends is always a good thing. We could go out and do an activity date like going to Dave and Busters to play games while we have fun and get to know each other. Another idea would be to go clubbing or go to a bar to have drinks. An activity date is better with more action rather than dinner and movie.
In a relationship, trust is a big issue. I would like to build a foundational friendship first and see where it leads. She must be WILLING to meet offline. Then, follow that with going to Art exhibits and looking at different cultures, going to parties/clubs, festivals, etc. Meanwhile, we will go to a nice restaurant like Apple Bee's.