| About | Non-Smoker with Average body type | City | London Ontario | |
| Details | 43 year old Man, 5' 10" (178 cm), Non-Religious | Ethnicity | Caucasian Cancer with Brown hair |
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| I am Seeking a | Woman | For | Dating | |
| Needs Test | View his relationship needs | Chemistry | View his chemistry results | |
| Do you drink? | No | Do you want children? | Undecided/Open | |
| Marital Status | Divorced | Do you do drugs? | No | |
| Profession | retired | Do you have children? | No | |
| Education | Graduate degree | Do you have a car? | Yes |
Relationship
Intent Ushawu wants to date but nothing serious. |
Relationship History The longest relationship Ushawu has been in was over 10 years long. |
Interests
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About Me
I gave in and changed my status to "dating" since far too many people seem to have a very strange idea about what the "looking for" selection means and "dating" is the least wrong of the available choices. While we're on the topic, how does the "intent" of dating translate into not wanting any sort of commitment?
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I have a sarcastic sense of humour and an unyielding ability for fun in almost any situation. I'm intelligent and interested in nearly everything except sports and reality TV, and you'll soon find I'm a verbal free-spirit; particularly at the most inappropriate of times when it's most likely to make you laugh despite yourself.
I'm looking for a woman who can be my friend and who is free to be more than just friends if the chemistry is right, and you need to be someone without a lot of rules about when it's okay to do this or that, because life is too short to not seize every opportunity to enjoy the things that make us happy, even if only for the moment.
It's okay to hope for something much more than that, but we need to develop a good friendship first. I know it's hard to resist "encouraging" things to move along faster (with a sledge hammer sometimes), but I believe we must let our relationship develop at its own pace or it simply won't last, so please leave your sledgehammer at home. After all, we can always get married on our second date.
It would be nice to meet someone who can get by on their own financially and who can appreciate that just because I'm good in bed doesn't mean we can't be good friends as well, and maybe {gasp} see if something more develops; so please quell your urge to run at the first sign of happiness. I know meeting a "good one" is scary, but do you really want to make another bad choice just because it's emotionally safer? (That's rhetorical by the way.) I've been guilty of doing that too, but that's in the past and now it's time to take a chance on finding a "good one" again.
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note: Please include a clear picture of your face when you write to me if there isn't one on your profile. Maybe you have a good reason, but try as I might I can't think of a legitimate one if you are genuinely here to meet someone.
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addendum: In case you're the sort of person who reads them, I believe the "Self Control" part of the "Compatibility Assessment" is a little off-base, and the "Preferred Expressions of Affection" in the "Needs Assessment" is nearly the opposite of how I am and what I want.
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I have a sarcastic sense of humour and an unyielding ability for fun in almost any situation. I'm intelligent and interested in nearly everything except sports and reality TV, and you'll soon find I'm a verbal free-spirit; particularly at the most inappropriate of times when it's most likely to make you laugh despite yourself.
I'm looking for a woman who can be my friend and who is free to be more than just friends if the chemistry is right, and you need to be someone without a lot of rules about when it's okay to do this or that, because life is too short to not seize every opportunity to enjoy the things that make us happy, even if only for the moment.
It's okay to hope for something much more than that, but we need to develop a good friendship first. I know it's hard to resist "encouraging" things to move along faster (with a sledge hammer sometimes), but I believe we must let our relationship develop at its own pace or it simply won't last, so please leave your sledgehammer at home. After all, we can always get married on our second date.
It would be nice to meet someone who can get by on their own financially and who can appreciate that just because I'm good in bed doesn't mean we can't be good friends as well, and maybe {gasp} see if something more develops; so please quell your urge to run at the first sign of happiness. I know meeting a "good one" is scary, but do you really want to make another bad choice just because it's emotionally safer? (That's rhetorical by the way.) I've been guilty of doing that too, but that's in the past and now it's time to take a chance on finding a "good one" again.
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note: Please include a clear picture of your face when you write to me if there isn't one on your profile. Maybe you have a good reason, but try as I might I can't think of a legitimate one if you are genuinely here to meet someone.
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addendum: In case you're the sort of person who reads them, I believe the "Self Control" part of the "Compatibility Assessment" is a little off-base, and the "Preferred Expressions of Affection" in the "Needs Assessment" is nearly the opposite of how I am and what I want.
First Date
I don't know about you, but I don't meet my friends for coffee and then interview them for a couple of hours. Not only don't I have that kind of spare time, frankly, it just doesn't work unless all you want to do is to check someone out before having sex. 
What I'd rather do is meet somewhere and talk for a little while, but only long enough to make sure we're meeting who we thought we were meeting, THEN we're going to actually DO SOMETHING like go to the movies or bowling or get something to eat or have sex for five hours... ANYTHING that actual friends might do in real life, and THEN we can hang out and talk afterwards. This way, even if things don't work out, at least we (hopefully) had fun.
By the way, I find talking about (or watching) sports or so-called "reality" shows REALLY boring.
"What do you mean you find sports boring?"
{yawn} What's that? Sorry. I fell asleep. Someone must have been talking about sports.
Regardless, we'll both decide what we're going to do together, right friend?
What I'd rather do is meet somewhere and talk for a little while, but only long enough to make sure we're meeting who we thought we were meeting, THEN we're going to actually DO SOMETHING like go to the movies or bowling or get something to eat or have sex for five hours... ANYTHING that actual friends might do in real life, and THEN we can hang out and talk afterwards. This way, even if things don't work out, at least we (hopefully) had fun.
By the way, I find talking about (or watching) sports or so-called "reality" shows REALLY boring.
"What do you mean you find sports boring?"
{yawn} What's that? Sorry. I fell asleep. Someone must have been talking about sports.
Regardless, we'll both decide what we're going to do together, right friend?
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