Great mid-west male with the genuine smile, heart and drive to go after what I want, capture it and keep it for as long as possible. Not a capture, play-with and discard you kind of man (like a cat of prey). I play drums in my free time to most all types of music. Like to take my dog for a walk.
I'm looking for...
Seeking a nice woman who is as comfortable being single, as being out and about town with another like-minded person.
I believe that.... cheating is hard work. You have to keep deleting texts, locking your phone and think of lies for the lies on the lies.... way too much for me! I prefer to be & remain honest. I love my mom to a fault (dad is in a nursing home w/Alzheimer's & dementia); my brother and his family live in South Carolina. I have 2 cousins in Tulsa, with 4 second cousins I adore. Hopefully you do believe in a higher power ( I know I do )...
Yes, I am an I/T person... yet I use a "dumb" phone. I write computer code, yet, do not play video games. I have a POF profile (duh!), but remain disconnected from the 24x7 "social" media of 1's and 0's.
I am essentially old fashioned in everything I do (from asking a woman out, opening doors, technology, "social" (haha) media, chivalry.
Send me a message.
Lets utilize a first date is as an extension of what a person likes and enjoys. I would be open to just about anything on the first date, like an activity and interest that a person enjoys. We can do something local, whimsical, outdoors, indoors, whatever - I am up for it.
The key is: Let's make it fun, relaxing, enjoyable and full of laughter!